Ronin, my friend,
I owe to you a great deal of respect,
You are the one that with your post "I always bet on the underdog...etc" have started a resurrection from a period of very deep personal chrysis.
I've had your phrase in me during days of great suffering, and it has helped, alot, way more than some personal friends.
So, here I am to tell you that you were right in whatever response you did to the troll (slavesleep, taz, whatever).
I can relate to your suffering for a girl. I've started fighting and NHB in hope to destroy myself just because the woman I did tought was the love of my life, left me without reason and without a word of explication.
So I tell you, if you are suffering for a relationship gone to hell, LET THE TIME PASS. Hang on, resist and let the time pass, eventually you will distance yourself from the pain, and then, you'll reach a point where you will see things from outside; then you will start forget. Then you'll have won.
It was that, for me.
Hope it helps you at lest 1/10 than what you did.
Take, care bro.
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