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And that should make you wonder.
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My point is that whoever wrote that is selling something. They are telling us that everyone is 'addicted' to sex and we need help from them in order to save our marriages or whatever. However, if everyone is abnormal, then the behavior cannot be abnormal - it's like saying if you eat food more than once per day then you are addicted to food and need some help.
Human beings are wired to like sex and also to be sexually attracted to healthy (read - good genetic specimen) members of the opposite sex. Just because a group says that people should not be so, doesn't change the fact that it is.
Faithfulness to one's spouse is a somewhat separate issue. I mean, if we were never attracted to others and if we never had sexual problems within a marriage, then faithfulness would not be a requirement - it'd be a non-issue.