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Old 11-20-2004, 04:39 AM   #21 (permalink)
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really dont like the fact that the women i spar with try to go full force with me. alot of times i end up getting pounded because some woman was trying her hardest to hurt me while im going light on them. the girls i spar with dont seem to want to work their techniuqes and speed and form, they instead just wanna wail on the guys
How do you know they are going full force? You dont know that. Maybe your just a bitch getting wailed on.

Now instead of working your techniques and skills against them you're just "drop(ing) these bitches now"? Sure you are

If you dont give your opponent upmost respect what do you expect them to do? They will earn your respect. It's not about whether you drop them or they drop you anyways. You need to get over that competitiveness. The only one you should be competitive against is yourself and getting better at what you do, developing your skills etc. Perhaps their manhating on you because you act like you're above sparring women. If your instructor teaches and allows you to spar women, the least you could do is respect that.
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