you become what you think about most.
so if you view yourself a loser long enough and hard enough you will eventually be.
Do you also picture your life like this?
I want and ugly wife, 16 kids who hate me, steal from me, and will eventually kill me. I will be poor and own nothing working 18 hours a day for next to nothing only to come home to my ugly wife who hates me who is doing her pimp when I walk in the door.
Becareful what you aim for you might get it.