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Originally Posted by BrAz!LiAn TiG3R
Lol, just kick their asses kid. Plain and simple, and if you get hurt while trying, then get hurt. The only way they win is if you walk away frustrated and angry. You'll lose your dignity and pride if you don't, and 50 years from now you'll still cry yourself to sleep at night at the shame of what you could have done. Stand up to them and show them you're not going to take their shit anymore. I know it's probably easier said than donw, but the best way to take the fear away is to just do it. The fear will eventually go away.
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Oh! That's great advise. School counsler material there. Everyone is offering this young man advise and none of us know his situation before we tell him to go pounding on people and getting himself injured (and it does matter) how about we find out what he know.
Before I even offer a suggestion - what makes you so confident that you can beat them all up? The reason being is that as someone posted earlier if you were that confident then one of two things would happen a) you would do it or b) you walk away and it doesn't phase you at all.
So please let us know, have you trained before...have you ever had a fight before?
FOR THE OTHERS EAGERLY THROWING HIM TO BATTLE
I grew up in NYC (as some here may be too) so I know all about the saving face, and having to face bullies and show them that you're not going to take it. Sometimes, it works and other times it will get the crap kicked out of you and if you step up to the wrong person it could cost you a great deal - especially in these days. So before you send someone off into battle with no consequence to yourself think about it. You may have trained or just be a good fighter - not everyone can do that and there are alternatives. I had my fair share of fights, victories and defeats but I never entered into one frivilously just to show I'm not one to be reckoned with. When and if the time came for me to fight...they learned then that they should not have...but until then most bullies as someone here said earlier loose interest if you just walked away from the verbal assault (usually with a smile). Physically that's another story - but we'll get into that if we hear back from this young man.