Thanks all.
I will follow your suggestions. I'll start doing more pull ups, push ups and wrist push ups. I'll also see if I can find a dumbell somewhere to do what you do, Eyegouge.
I don't really want to look huge. Altho now, people easily try to intimidate me because most of them look bigger. All I have to intimidate others, is my length. A luck I have the advantage of speed towards most of the big guys
Anyways, I don't want to look like a gorilla, but looking at least "normal" (and not way too skinny) would be nice. I guess that will come automatically when doing these exercices.
Thanks again all