I personally think a mix of no-gi and gi would be the most beneficial for self defense purposes and could be useful if you ever fight someone who wheres a gi, or if you become good enough with yours you could wear it in fights. But about the shoulder lock thing, you could just tell your training partners to take it easy on your shoulder and maybe avoid going for shoulder locks, I think most training partners would be fine with it.
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