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Originally Posted by Sagacious Lu
Because they're safe. They want action and they aren't ready to let someone get close enough to them to have a serious relationship yet. For that reason they'll specifically avoid guys that might really be a good partner over the long run.
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While I'd like to disagree with you, I can't. I would add that its not just the closeness that they are uncomfortable with, its traits like gentleness, patience and kindness that are alien to alot of women.
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Originally Posted by Sagacious Lu
On the other hand if you're talking about girls that show a pattern of dating guys that are doing truly brutal things (ie. physical abuse as opposed to just yelling when they're mad) than that shows some seriously self-destructive behavior.
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I think that is what Tree Lizard is asking about. Its very sad to hear about women who go through this.
I knew someone that was involved with someone who had been through one of these. It went deeper into her childhood I think. She was a very sweet and loveable person, but frequently ill. It sucks when someone so good is allways bed ridden; it'll break one's heart again and again and again....