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Originally Posted by Tom Yum
Have you been with a woman who deserved to be on a pedestal in terms of beauty, intelligence, morality and personality  ?
If so, she pretty much screwed it up for the others...LOL. |
Nobody, and I mean ABSO-F@#!IN'-LUTELY NOBODY deserves to be put on a pedestal because we've all got our issues and flaws. It's just not fair to the other person because they're only human so inevitably they will fall short of your expectations. That goes double for members of the opposite sex because if you're putting them on a pedestal than you're not being honest with yourself about who they really are. If you can't accept them for who they are (just as flawed and screwed up in their own way as every other human being) than you're not in love with them, you're in love with the *idea* of who you want them to be. That always leads to heart ache and hard feelings.
*Walks off whistling "My Angel is a Centerfold" by J. Geils Band*