Unfortunately, the story, and the kid, are totally real. Actually, his success with sports and his natural attributes are what threw me off when he started describing his problems to me. I wish it were a made up thing, because I think a lot of us here can relate to the bully situation, but this one is straight from the files of truth. But then again, that may well be why he's gotten ignored by the people he's asked for help. They probably see a gifted athletic high-schooler who should have all the confidence in the world. Well, maybe he should, but he doesn't, and unfortunately for him, the image adults are seeing may be what's stopping them from getting more involved. It's a shame that nobody wants to pay attention until the kid actually becomes a whipped dog, cowering at everyone around him.
And for all those who posted over the last week, I have a meeting with his dad today to discuss the direction I want to take his training. We're going to discuss the emotional and psychological aspects of what's going on, and then I'm going to suggest that his dad allow me to go into some of our more proven "fight stoppers" like the headbutts, knees, and elbows, eye gouges, and so on. May not be too politically correct, but screw it. I'm tired of hearing about him getting his ass kicked, and I'm sure that, deep down, he's pretty tired of having it happen. You guys have been a lot of help. Keep it coming.
Bahala Na,
Mike
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"Nature is ruled by the redness of fang and claw."
-Ernest Hemingway
"The God of War hates those who hesitate."
-Euripides
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