Originally Posted by jubaji

If you don't have the self control to determine when aggression is or is not called for, then it won't matter what you study. Do you think you will grapple with someone in a 'real' situation and not need to become aggressive at some point? Also, its a better idea to worry about the ability to prevail in a given situation before indulging in concern about how badly you might hurt a person who is out to hurt you. That's a kind of vanity if you ask me.