Originally Posted by Michael Wright

Just an important point I'd like to make to you, martial arts and self-defence are not as intrinsically linked as many beginners would like to believe. The physical response from any art, or no art, makes up only a fraction of the puzzle.

The psychology of confrontation is where most people succeed or fail, before any grappling or striking has taken place. Fear, adrenaline, verbal control, confidence, deception, the balls to make your move, and deal with the consequences.

Make sure that whatever art you choose, these areas are covered in the training, otherwise it leaves a big gap in what I believe you are looking for.