totally agree with you mate, talking about losses and when things went wrong is a great way to teach what to avoid.. mistakes and failures are often far better ways to teach than successes.. i trained as a psychologist and my lecturers would give these perfect case examples and then id see patients and think the people i saw were far more complex cases and i couldnt apply the stuff.... the guy i learnt the most from gave his worst mistakes and where things went wrong and how he responded to that...i learnt more from him than all the others... i know its not self defence but im a firm believer in the concept from learning from where stuff doesnt go right...
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