Oh Garland, Sweety, where do you live?!
In some parts of the world a girl upping a guy on anything is still a big deal!
We spar trans-gender and across the ranks (but we don't go full contact anyhow). There is a difference how the new kids spar with a guy or with a woman - especially one that could be their Mom.
More experienced people should give the newbs pointers, not beat them up!
