dont take what mike said to heart (as in this is meant to be a discussion not an arena for picking fights) but he does have a point just like mine in my first reply, put yourself in other people's shoes. heres an example outta what was mentioned, ok so theres a guy who you think is a dick and your day is ruined, he has a day too maybe he started being a dick coz something you or your friends did, so him being a dick in return would make his day slightly less shittier coz he doesnt feel walked over. but then again if the guy is a real scum bag and has a low self esteem and feels glorious when he makes others feel like crap then you should really ignore him, coz you got your friends to have fun with concentrate as a whole not on everything around you so therefore that guy is a 'empty' factor since he doesnt play a role in you having fun (unless your the one with low self esteem and you having fun is when your belting people), or your other option is to put him in his place, i'd take the ignoring him option unless he picks a fight and throws the first punch, coz sometime in the future it'll catch up to you, someone guy will put YOU in YOUR place so just let everything take its natural order no need to go texas ranger on anyones ass unless they assaulting, your loved ones, old people or children or your wife/girlfriend.
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