Damn, Hookah, that was possibly the most "tell it like it is" thing you've ever said. I completely agree with you. It's a shame...
But hey! There's much cooler forums around!
Kim, I'll warn you about one thing. Most of the guys posting here are younger than you are, and many of them have no respect for women in general. If you're looking for more adult guys who are more respectful this, sadly, may not be the forum for it. There are some good guys here though. They'll be around.
OB is just kidding though, like you said.
Later,
Ryu