hehehehe, guy discussion...
K as female chiming in...you don't want to get into the BJJ prime position...
defend till you get your opening and run...of course, doing A LOT of damage aids greatly in that goal.
Thankfully I have not been in that situation - knock on wood - and won't ever be. But my style (non olympic, part way traditional) also has taught me a good set of SD techniques like pressure points etc...
The mind set and physical fitness is probably the greatest asset you gain training in MA. of course, I can imagine as a guy sporting a Black belt I makes you a target for any yahoo wanting to proof how tough they are...us girls usually get the 'oh you can beat up your husband' line...
