I once went on a date with a woman who couldn't cook.
Not knowing this, I asked her if she would cook a nice meal.
Her cooking brutalized me....
I didn't blame her. I just ate as much as I could, thanked her and left.
I came over the next time we had a date and helped her cook a nice dinner.
She 'brutalized' me again - I think my pelvis was almost broken
What's the point of this? You can't do everything on your own and sometimes you need someone to point you in the right direction.