i agree with jesse and chalambok. fighting in the real world is 85% mental. thinking you can win is important. that's why the skill of a lot of smaller fighters goes down the drain against a big guy--even if the bigger guy is not a skilled fighter. when you are intimidated or think you won't come out on top, your ability to fight is seriously diminished. self defense is a bad name--it should be something like protective offense. being defensive or having a defensive mindset can get you hurt/killed.
just my 2 cents
ryan
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