WI Kali Group,
You don't know the whole story. Here is the last page where paula adresses the fact that john Soet is the target of her letter. She writes:
"We have long stopped buying the martial art magazines, but people constantly send us articles, or “gossip” items for verification. These informative” articles include such items as “Dan Inosanto throws sister out of his school” (Dan was never present on that occasion, and Lilia was never “thrown out”- when Dan asked Lilia about this, her response was “It was John’s idea”) ; “Cass Magda not invited to Dan Inosanto’s daughter’s wedding,” (now, there is some pertinent
martial arts information); or how about the column on Dan’s mother
after her death, a piece which offended Dan deeply, and had no place in a martial art publication. I could go on and on with quotes attributed to Dan, all of which he never said, but this would be a
waste of both your time and mine, and I am sure you have an idea now of what Dan has had to put up with partly because of your irresponsible publications. Should you personally be interested in more than “varying opinions” from unqualified and uncertified individuals, and getting to the truth about Jeet Kune Do, the art and the students of the Jun Fan Gung Fu Institute, our door is always open to you too!
There is one paragraph in your letter which, quite frankly, shocked and appalled Dan. John indicated “he has given Dan
preferential treatment,” when in fact, every lie, misquote, or damaging piece of information in your publication apparently leads right back to John himself as the author, or person responsible for its
appearance in the magazine. We would like to make one thing perfectly clear; we have no “familial ties” with John Soet. John married Dan’s sister Lilia Howe, but by no stretch of the imagination did he become a member of our family. He is not now nor has he
ever been considered “family.” There are no past misunderstandings
where Mr. Soet is concerned. He has always been perfectly understood, his views and feelings concerning my husband and members of his family, as stated over and over again in letters and documents that comprise a file almost as large as the inaccurate information in the magazines.
You ask if there is anything you can do to make this up to Dan. What do you think can be done to unravel the morass created by your disingenuous publications, and to remove the grief experienced by us
arising from the cloud you have placed over the reputation of one of
the most honest, sincere, compassionate, knowledgeable and decent
human beings the martial arts world has ever known?
Sincerely,
Paula L. Inosanto
PLI

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