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View Poll Results: In your experience; which scenario is most common?
The worst bully scenario is Male vs Female Victim 5 10.64%
The worst bully scenario is older male vs younger male victim 8 17.02%
The worst bully scenario is high school dropout vs student currently enrolled victim 0 0%
The worst bully scenario involves the elderly victim 5 10.64%
The worst bully scenario involves multiple attack situations 20 42.55%
The worst bully scenario involves a disabled victim 9 19.15%
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Old 11-15-2006, 09:34 PM   #46 (permalink)
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martial arts havent taught me anything about mentaly dealing with bullies. they only taught me to fight sad to say. i get made fun of alot. and i mean alot. some asshole is turning my friends against me and i feel like punching his jaw in his head. i dont care what martial arts teach. i just want to literally kill him and people like that who tease me. anyways, if i fought him , he would be a big pussy and get all of his backup after me. he has alot of friends who are really strong and have connections to gangs. people are like that. especially the asians at my old school and present school. they think there are all tough(and they really are strong) and when they loose a fight or get into confrontations, it all turns to gang fights and multiple confrontations. its only the opposite of that when there is beef between the two or its an organized fight. in grade 7 i had a friend for about 3 months then he started teasing me really badly to be popular. we had some confrontations. mostly ones where i had ended up using a simple throw to end it. but i never saw him untill this year. when i first saw him in math class the first day he said "thats the guy who thinks he can beat me with his kung fu skills" lol. after that day, we were cool and dont have beef anymore. sometimes here and there we do occasional friendly slaps and stuff like that. sometimes i block it and sometimes i miss and just laugh. female bullies are pretty bad too. one time i actually got the guts to call one a bitch. she stopped teasing after a while then moved. if that hurt her, i am glad it did. anyways i hate alot of things about my life. i usually never tell the whole truth cuz it would be embarrasing and people would think im some low life who has little friends(which sometimes i think is true). this world fucking sucks. i hate it. ill be glad when i die. im not ready to just yet unless it gets really bad.
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Old 11-16-2006, 11:15 AM   #47 (permalink)
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Listen up young Blood, we are here to help you. First Off I am 49 years old and go by the name of coach. All that hatred and negativity you have stored up can make you a champion in martial arts. When you feel hatred and anger, it's a good time to practice or hit the heavy bag or practice your kicks or pump iron. Afterwards you will feel a since of relief. It's called turning a negative situation into something positive. You belong in a boxing ring, dojo or some type of martial art or combat sport. Do you have a coach or instructor? Good job on ending that fight with a throw.
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whos young blood?
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Old 11-17-2006, 08:49 AM   #49 (permalink)
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whos young blood?
Stick with the Issues Sir!
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Stick with the Issues Sir!
i dont understand what you mean?
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I was bullied A LOT throughout elementary school, and high school. This led to me becoming a "bully thrasher." I hated these people with ever fibre of my being, and I can still remember fighting off my first bully in grade 1. After going through maybe 5 bullies, I didn't even wait for them to finish what they had to say anoymore, and just attacked them with everything I had. Almost always this happened outside of the school zone on my way home, so my parents never found out about it, and the school never did either.

The bullying stopped when I was in grade 11. I guess most people knew I was psycho from what they had seen, and just left me alone. I didn't mind. My dealings with criminal violence have been far more stressful.

Bullying is getting a lot worse nowadays. I almost consider it criminal violence. We have kids killing themselves, school shootings, and I remember one story about the victims house being burned down by the bully's family. It's just fucking sad.
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