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Old 02-26-2007, 06:24 PM   #46 (permalink)
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Well in aspect of looking how i used MA in real life situation its was like this:

I have been traning the last year of Judo (8 year), i was in Croatia on the summer vacation, having fun along the shore whit my friends from Slovenia. Now there comes the guy (croatian) that i knewd him for a while and he knewd about the Judo, so he always keept hitting me in the arm like he is some sort of boxer, one day it got over my mind, i told him to back off, he didnt he said "what u gona do" and push me whit one arm (OH boy, now thats the basic in judo for throwing, when a guy push you whit one arm) i just grab his arm, bended over from the floor and smashed him on the floor (hard to explain well the throw was Seoi-nage). While he was laying on the floor still thinking how he got there blood started to came from the head, he raned home and that was it.

Heres another one, well it wasnt realy a MA becouse it was my fault for doing that, and at the end i tooked the short one.

1 month ago i went out whit my 3 buddys, well we were drinking, but i didnt as they, so one of my friend was so drunk and gets very agressive (hes weight is 125kg, calculate yourself in stons or what ever), we camed out of the club and i was singing, was happy so some guys 6 of them started to say something, and my friend so drunk he just jumped on them, when i turned i saw 3 on him, i decided i wont look and i jumped to help, me and my buddy (other one) drag one bigger guy out, so it was 2 on 1, my friend dont know how it happend, well he was gone for a sec, while i was thinking, aproching whit my hand punch could resolve in a bad thing (the guy was nice "shaped" and didnt seemed weak and beeing 25 years gaved him advance, so i decide ill just kick him (bad idea) first kick landed nicly on his ribs he looked at me like he was suprised, so i did it second, heck if it landed first it will second, there was i wrong, he was only unpreapared and it camed out he is a kickboxer, so i kick again he blocks my leg and hurts my instep of the foot, after that my friend jumped in punched him few times and it all stoped, my foot was big as small bread,... After one month still having little problems whit this, and it learned me a valuable lesson, dont use something you dont know, ill be remebering this for life.

Funny thing, this last one,but thats the problem in fights you may never know what to expect from other guy standing 2 feet away.

Other things that happened, were not even close to any from of MA, it was like 10 on 10, confused even who to hit....




I hope my english isnt that bad
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Old 04-15-2007, 09:31 AM   #47 (permalink)
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Hey, its better than my Polish.

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Old 04-16-2007, 11:25 PM   #48 (permalink)
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this kid smack my girls friends butt and i hit him in the jaw and he fell back so i hit him in the nose and he fell down and the princible pulled me away from him. he bleed all over the carpet and nows there a blood stain on the middle school carpet. he tryed to him me when the princible pulled me off of him and i kick him in the ribs and got 3 days of out of school for the roundhouse to the jaw and the punch to the nose and 3 more days for the kick to the ribs.i wish i dint kick him in the ribs but he was going to him me so i kick him
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First off let me start by saying i am a good friendly person that believes in what goes around comes around and that kicking a dog when his down or hitting an innocent or defenseless person is a disgrace. I have a passion for martial arts and bettering myself both physically and mentally.

This fight experience has left me both tainted and strengthened.

Tainted because i always think what would have happened if i did this?

And strengthen because now iv'e become quite fearless after i realized how tough i really am.

About 6 months ago i was at a drink up with to allied gangs, i was in neither of the gangs but i was mates with some of them and didn't know the rest of them. Any way as it got further into the night the leader of one of the gangs and the biggest one there started asking me questions like where do i live and stuff. Everyone at the drink up was afraid of him the most.

He was 22 and i was 16. Then he asks me if i wanna join his gang. I'm like ok whats the recruitment. He goes you have to fight ty, this person i didn't know. A little bit taller than me. I said ok but ty didnt want to fight. So i told the leader that im not gonna fight ty for no reason if he doesnt want to fight me. The leader started shouting at ty in his face so i just slightly pushed the leader away from ty telling him to calm down.

The leader Than walked away for a second. long story short after that the leader started shouting at me for not hitting ty then the leader slapped me 4 times open hand in the face punched in the gut, grabbed my head and kneed me twice in the head but i was still standing and telling him i dont want to fight him, i just wanna be on my way, then another guy ran up who was high on ice and started laying into me, as he was hiting me i didnt have my guards up or anything i was just thinking i gotta get to the bus stop, so i started walking to the bus stop.

another three guys joined in to try n smash me to the ground but they couldnt knock me out or even hit me hard enough for me to put my guards up.My adrenaline was pumping but so was my intelligence, i knew that i could knock them out but if i did i would have both gangs running in to get me, so i took every shot thrown at me with out swinging back. then i passed out in hit my eye which was already closed up on a wooden lodge which cut my eye open but as soon as i dropped i knew that i had to get up so i did , and managed to get home with the help of two girls.

this was probably the worst situation of my life but i realize now that i dont go down easily and that if it comes to 1 on 1 that my opponent isn't gonna have an easy fight.

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One time at band camp someone left out a picinic basket and when woke there was a bear in our camp, needless to say things got hairy real fast.i was forced to use my chi as the bear was strong,but in the end the bear decided to walk away with his pride still in place
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Old 03-20-2008, 02:47 PM   #51 (permalink)
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Real fight experiences?

My Grandmother worked three jobs for 45 years to raise ten kids, survived 25 years of abuse from an alcoholic husband, and beat cancer 4 times.

So you knocked a guy out in a bar once, congratulations.
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Dammit Michael, I still can't rep you!

Glaze, by way of reply, I'm going to assume you are not a native English speaker. The fight you described was 100% your own fault, and even being there speaks to the "intelligence that was still working." Bad judgement from the outset. Since you have the toughness thing covered, try working on being a little more strategy-minded.
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this kid smack my girls friends butt and i hit him in the jaw and he fell back so i hit him in the nose and he fell down and the princible pulled me away from him. he bleed all over the carpet and nows there a blood stain on the middle school carpet. he tryed to him me when the princible pulled me off of him and i kick him in the ribs and got 3 days of out of school for the roundhouse to the jaw and the punch to the nose and 3 more days for the kick to the ribs.i wish i dint kick him in the ribs but he was going to him me so i kick him
Sounds like the "princible" needs to work on cracking the whip a little. Teachers in the English department appear to be on leave...
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Old 04-07-2008, 10:34 AM   #54 (permalink)
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The only time I get close to a fight is when my older brothers declare to strangers to "watch out because I'm an ultimate fighter!"
Haha i know the feeling i had the same situation but a bit happier, I went to stay with my brother at his uni city

One moment we were making drunken jokes about solid snake resuming a regular life and the next my brother is exclaiming that im a 'proper sick streetfighter' and i did the same as justafighter, and explained that I had only just started, try and claim the circle of people id just realise i found myself in. and my brothers friend who a good foot taller then me (me being about 6 foot anyway) enters the ring because he wants to see these skills. ofc when i turn around and refuse he starts to jokingly hip thrusting my arse. so I thought i'd give it a shot we wer all friends :P.

I turned around and thrusted my elbow into his throat and wraping my other arm around his the back of his head whilst he was in mid thrust. I tugged down hard and he stumbled to my level, I tugged down again hoping to ground him but he fell to his knees and put his hand on the table stopping him from falling further... thats when i froze, because i couldnt think of anything other then smashing the elbow that was at his throat in his face, this being a friendly match i loosened off. He took this oppertunity to pick me up by the waist and put me against the wall, at first i was rather bewildered by how hight i was but as soon as i hit the wall i noticed i was in a perfect position for a gilotine choke and excuted it swiftly . he turned from the wall to put me down but i had my legs wrapped around his body. I think he tapped out I can't remeber but i remeber being told his lips wer going blue but proberbly drunken banter.

This was a fun lil wrestle but im still waiting for my real fight
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My brother, a friend and I were walking back for the corner store when my brother dropped the money he was carrying, the wind caught it and he very stupidly and without looking ran out onto the road to get it. He was nearly hit by a van and when he returned, I gave him crap for being so stupid.

Next thing I know, the van pulls into a driveway about 15ft ahead of us the guy driving (roughly 6' 5'', 250 to 300lbs) gets out of the van and charges my brother. My brother crumpled to the ground in fear, and the man towered over him. I couldn't see due to my position, but I believed the man was going to either choke or strike my brother. I grabbed the man by his shoulders and tried pulling him away. He complied, turning, and throwing a punch, which due to his size and my stance, landed on the top of my head. I could tell more was coming, but my friend grabbed him like I had done and the man spun again, throwing a punch which landed on my friends face. My friend responded by hitting him in the nose and mouth with three punches and the guy pushed my friend into a nearby wall before turning on me.

He grabbed me by my shoulders and tried to pull me down but I grabbed his shoulders and somehow managed to stay standing. Eventually he got fed up trying to knock me down and backed up, kicking me in the ribs and turning and heading back towards his vehicle.

On closer inspection, I could see he had a wife and at least one kid watching him from the van.

While I don't condone what my brother did, I don't believe it was a reason for physical attack. I'm somewhat happy with the way I responded, though, had it not been for my friend, he likely would have focused the attack on me and could have done some serious damage.
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In another situation, I told a guy off for giving my GF lip and he didn't like it. He and his buddies came after me, but luckily, at the moment, only he wanted to fight.

Needless to say, he used his weight, threw quite a few punches, then knees, then once I was on the ground, kicks with steel toed boot. Despite all this, when he asked whether I was giving up I said no. Eventually he got off, got to his feet and so did I. Someone yelled that I was bleeding (he had nicked a earlier cut on my neck made from shaving) so he said the fight was over and we turned and walked.

As they were walking away, one of his friends (who I mistook for him), yelled back 'F**k You' or something to that extent. I yelled F**k You back and the guy dropped his coat, bag and in seconds, closed the gap, hit me in the eye, pushed me over and kicked me with his steel toed boots.

I was actually pretty happy because other than the cut, I came out with a very tame black eye and some soreness. On the other hand, I realize it could have been worse and since, when I get an adrenaline rush or get angry, I instinctively run my mouth, it was time to take self defense classes.
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