A solution to all our problems...please read

[YeLLa-TiGeR]

Hey in the light of everything that has happened here. All the dramas, soap operas and finally everyone leaving this forum and some even being BIG jackasses, we need something.

A NEW ADMINISTRATOR. Tim and Goddess are good people, but damn I have not heard anything from them. WE NEED people to moderate here and erase all the troll threads and kick people off. This is mandatory to ensure the future of this forum is not bleak. I like this place and the people in it. Have some loyalty people and we need to tell Tim that one of the forum members here should act as the moderator.

[Mr. Miyagi]

I agree but who the hell has time to be checking this thing all the time? It takes 10 minutes to mess things up the way Guru did.

[Underdog]

To login you must have an email. To have an email you must be logged to server, the server have your address and real name.

Find Guru real name and address.

Post it.

Someone, from behind, in the dark, will take care of business.

I would pay to do it myself, but a transoceanic flying just to break someone neck is beyond my possibilities right now.

[Tim Mousel]

Hi,

Yes, there are some problems that can happen awfully quickly. If you ever see one, email me at forum@defend.net and I'll take care of matters.

So who wants to be a moderator?

Tim

Hi Tim:

If you have time, you could try to find out who my troll friend "What's inside a girl" is, or you could just wait until Friday when the little jerk unmasks himself.

I was almost ready to quit the Forum over that guy. I have been trolled masterfully.

If he hadn't gotten personal with me I could almost respect that.

[YeLLa-TiGeR]

I'll do it! But I dont think Im the best.

I would recomend Ronin, E1 am Ronin, Underdog, ANYONE who has the time or anyone who would like to volunteer. Id be happy to do it though. It be an honor.

[What's inside a girl?]

Hey Tim,

Check the record and you'll find out Ronin has contributed his share of antagonism; he even laid down an Internet challenge before backing off and had the nerve to describe how he would beat my ass. The last I heard he had apologized to the forum for his own bad behavior and was leaving. Now he has retraced that promise and wants to enlist you to reveal identities. I don't even know what he wants, an IP address??? I really don't know why he is so fascinated with someone he calls a troll, I just call em as I see em. Just like Joe Manco.

Thanks for your good work.

[Underdog]

Ronin, my friend,

I owe to you a great deal of respect,

You are the one that with your post "I always bet on the underdog...etc" have started a resurrection from a period of very deep personal chrysis.

I've had your phrase in me during days of great suffering, and it has helped, alot, way more than some personal friends.

So, here I am to tell you that you were right in whatever response you did to the troll (slavesleep, taz, whatever).

I can relate to your suffering for a girl. I've started fighting and NHB in hope to destroy myself just because the woman I did tought was the love of my life, left me without reason and without a word of explication.

So I tell you, if you are suffering for a relationship gone to hell, LET THE TIME PASS. Hang on, resist and let the time pass, eventually you will distance yourself from the pain, and then, you'll reach a point where you will see things from outside; then you will start forget. Then you'll have won.

It was that, for me.

Hope it helps you at lest 1/10 than what you did.

Take, care bro.

[YeLLa-TiGeR]

Underdog,
your evil!!

Underdog:

Damn. I'm just glad I was able to help. I was just sorry things had gotten that bad for you.

Frankly, if I have your respect, I can live without the respect of just about every other Forum-member.

Otherwise, all I can say is "No problem".

[duchman]

I wan to be a moderator !!!
better watch out martial artist!

[Tony10]

What is with you guys and this Morrisey-like misery over girls leaving you? You guys must be younger than I thought. Wait 'till you get older, trust me: all of a sudden the world doesn't fall to pieces...

I have a suggestion for you: don't offer personal info on the 'net if you don't want somebody to potentially use it against you. Talk about "off-topic"... you're just begging to be trolled when you do that. You don't know who you're dealing with on this board, with a few exceptions. For all you know I could be a 40 year-old housewife. Remember that when you post intimate details and then one of the usual suspects pounces.

Just some advice.

Tony10:

It was a 9-year relationship. More like a common-law marriage, with more than the usual share of ups and downs due to her personal problems. Just so you know. I don't whine like this over every little pin-prick, I'm just not good at functioning without my partner and best friend. I'm learning.

As for my outburst:

You have to admit that that was a BRILLIANT troll. He had Joe Manco thoroughly convinced he was Tez on the original psychoanalysis thread, so I don't feel so dumb now. Poor Tez has been unfairly maligned.

Not all of us have your wisdom, buddy. Seriously.

[Tony10]

9 years? Ouch. Sorry.

Tony:

No harm, no foul.

I'm starting to wonder now why we never got married...

Oh yeah. She's terrified of permanent relationships. Same reason we broke up.