How Do You Wrestle Girls?

HAPPY JACK · 08-01-2003, 05:25 AM

DO YOU WRESTLE A WOMAN THE SAME WAY YOU WRESTLE A MAN?
DO YOU GO HARD?(FLAT OUT LIKE A LIZARD DRINKING).
DO YOU GO SOFT?(MORE TECHNIQUE).

Mr. Heel Hook · 08-01-2003, 08:05 AM

Man or women, technique should be what you are trying to do. However, if you feel you are still over matching your partner, then limit your attacks. For instance: Go for arm locks only. Attack only the foot. So on so forth. Women do get a small handicap because they are weaker. But the truth is, does that matter? it shouldn't. You should be relying on your technique alone because there is always someone bigger and stronger then you to muscle you around.

HAPPY JACK · 08-01-2003, 09:34 AM

Man or women, technique should be what you are trying to do.

Im just trying to get a post going.
Of course you are correct in saying technique is everything,it's Bjj, its pretty much everything.
If i get a roll that lasts for 45 mins or for an hour it has everything to do with tecnique.I've been tapped out by women and men
as long as no one goes home injured and they enjoyed the roll as much as i did, i've had a good night.

Szczepankiewicz · 08-01-2003, 12:14 PM

This is how it's done...

Great Sage · 08-01-2003, 01:05 PM

How do you wrestle women?

This is what many would like:
You’re paired up with a gorgeous lady. The two of you roll around and you frequently get mounted or put into her guard. There’s also frequent contact with your bossoms... Later that night, you can’t help but reminise about the great workout you had.

This is what really happens:
You feel awkward wrestling someone’s mom, especially when they’re in the room too! You go through your motions half-heartedly trying to avoid certain manuveurs... In the end, you almost feel violated, because an older woman took advantage of your generosity.

sercuerdas · 08-01-2003, 01:26 PM

1. in class you fight in which ever way improves both of your fighting ability, sometimes use your strength to help her learn how to deal with it, other times use pure tech. your both there to learn and that is the goal.

2. in a tournament or fight, you unlease all your skill supported by all your physical attributes(e.g. size, strength,speed,etc)to end the match/fight as soon as possible. if a woman chooses to grapple with you it is disrespectful to "GO EASY ON HER".

Manufest · 08-01-2003, 06:41 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by HAPPY JACK
DO YOU WRESTLE A WOMAN THE SAME WAY YOU WRESTLE A MAN?
DO YOU GO HARD?(FLAT OUT LIKE A LIZARD DRINKING).
DO YOU GO SOFT?(MORE TECHNIQUE).

wasn't sure if you were talking about a MA or something else.... lol

Pit Dog · 08-06-2003, 03:00 AM

Unless you are severely outranked, it is only beneficial for the woman who grapples with you.

If a woman outranks you, she will whip you. But if you are the same rank as she, her ineffective strength will not present much of a challenge for you. The saying, "Don't use strength" is over-used. Helio developed that "don't use strength" style because he HAD NONE ... and passively getting dragged around was the only way he could survive ... riding out the storm ... as he certainly wasn't going to outmuscle anyone. So, in a sense, Helio was like a woman. He had to rely much more on technique than strength.

Anyway, you should just look at yourself as "helping" the woman when you grapple with her. Do NOT go easy; try to whip her. This is the best help you can possibly give her ... because no one who is going to try and rape a woman (if she is there for self-defense) is going to take it easy on her, so why should you?

Further, if her technique improves to the point she can fend you off ... or (God forbid) catch you a time or two and make you tap ... then you will have given her an invaluable service by earnestly trying to beat her ... because she will have learned true technique to overcome it ... and even if she always loses to you, she still will have a valuable and realistic impression of her skills at that point, what it is like to be dominated by a man, and she will know what she really has to improve to cope with it.

So in a sense you are almost in a teacher's role ... again unless she outranks you. If she outranks you, then you are faced with the prospect of getting tapped by a girl

Jack

Bjjexpertise@be · 08-06-2003, 02:20 PM

Ghost and i have had this discussion before, he claims he'll let her mount him

falcon3624 · 08-06-2003, 06:15 PM

If you talk to BJJ4LIFE about it he would probably be disgusted at the idea or wrestling a woman. Give him a man though and you got a horny dog trying to hump everything he rubs against.

**Thai Bri** · 08-06-2003, 07:26 PM

Is that why you asked for his telephone number?

Manufest · 08-06-2003, 07:49 PM

rofl

NHBMARK1 · 08-06-2003, 08:36 PM

Usually with a great big woody.

falcon3624 · 08-07-2003, 07:53 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Thai Bri
Is that why you asked for his telephone number?

I would never do any such thing.....Last I heard he had started a thread talking about how you and him had been training real "hard". He was talking about how he showed you the DICKINASS move and you took right to it just like a pro.

Ghost · 08-07-2003, 09:24 AM

Yeah and now they are working on the COCKCHOKE and the ANALWRENCH.

08-01-2003, 05:25 AM	#1 (permalink)
HAPPY JACK Novice Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Perth. Western Australia Posts: 21 Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	How Do You Wrestle Girls? DO YOU WRESTLE A WOMAN THE SAME WAY YOU WRESTLE A MAN? DO YOU GO HARD?(FLAT OUT LIKE A LIZARD DRINKING). DO YOU GO SOFT?(MORE TECHNIQUE). __________________ I see myself standing before my enemy, He attacks, But By then I am already safely behind him.

08-01-2003, 08:05 AM	#2 (permalink)
Mr. Heel Hook Registered User Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Pepperell MA Posts: 441 Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	hm.. Man or women, technique should be what you are trying to do. However, if you feel you are still over matching your partner, then limit your attacks. For instance: Go for arm locks only. Attack only the foot. So on so forth. Women do get a small handicap because they are weaker. But the truth is, does that matter? it shouldn't. You should be relying on your technique alone because there is always someone bigger and stronger then you to muscle you around. __________________ "A deer admires a lion. But all the members of our family are lions. So it doesn't matter which lion I admire. " -Rener Gracie-

08-01-2003, 09:34 AM	#3 (permalink)
HAPPY JACK Novice Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Perth. Western Australia Posts: 21 Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	Man or women, technique should be what you are trying to do. Im just trying to get a post going. Of course you are correct in saying technique is everything,it's Bjj, its pretty much everything. If i get a roll that lasts for 45 mins or for an hour it has everything to do with tecnique.I've been tapped out by women and men as long as no one goes home injured and they enjoyed the roll as much as i did, i've had a good night. __________________ I see myself standing before my enemy, He attacks, But By then I am already safely behind him. Last edited by HAPPY JACK; 08-01-2003 at 09:49 AM.

08-01-2003, 01:05 PM	#5 (permalink)
Great Sage Registered User Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Nowhere, USA... Posts: 510 Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	How do you wrestle women? This is what many would like: You’re paired up with a gorgeous lady. The two of you roll around and you frequently get mounted or put into her guard. There’s also frequent contact with your bossoms... Later that night, you can’t help but reminise about the great workout you had. This is what really happens: You feel awkward wrestling someone’s mom, especially when they’re in the room too! You go through your motions half-heartedly trying to avoid certain manuveurs... In the end, you almost feel violated, because an older woman took advantage of your generosity. __________________ The sage experiences without abstraction, And accomplishes without action; He accepts the ebb and flow of things, Nurtures them, but does not own them, And lives, but does not dwell.

08-06-2003, 03:00 AM	#8 (permalink)
Pit Dog Registered User Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: Tennessee Posts: 2,617 Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	Grappling w/ women Unless you are severely outranked, it is only beneficial for the woman who grapples with you. If a woman outranks you, she will whip you. But if you are the same rank as she, her ineffective strength will not present much of a challenge for you. The saying, "Don't use strength" is over-used. Helio developed that "don't use strength" style because he HAD NONE ... and passively getting dragged around was the only way he could survive ... riding out the storm ... as he certainly wasn't going to outmuscle anyone. So, in a sense, Helio was like a woman. He had to rely much more on technique than strength. Anyway, you should just look at yourself as "helping" the woman when you grapple with her. Do NOT go easy; try to whip her. This is the best help you can possibly give her ... because no one who is going to try and rape a woman (if she is there for self-defense) is going to take it easy on her, so why should you? Further, if her technique improves to the point she can fend you off ... or (God forbid) catch you a time or two and make you tap ... then you will have given her an invaluable service by earnestly trying to beat her ... because she will have learned true technique to overcome it ... and even if she always loses to you, she still will have a valuable and realistic impression of her skills at that point, what it is like to be dominated by a man, and she will know what she really has to improve to cope with it. So in a sense you are almost in a teacher's role ... again unless she outranks you. If she outranks you, then you are faced with the prospect of getting tapped by a girl Jack

08-01-2003, 12:14 PM	#4 (permalink)
Szczepankiewicz Registered User Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Meridian, ID, USA Posts: 4,109 Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	This is how it's done...

08-01-2003, 01:26 PM	#6 (permalink)
sercuerdas Registered User Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 160 Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	1. in class you fight in which ever way improves both of your fighting ability, sometimes use your strength to help her learn how to deal with it, other times use pure tech. your both there to learn and that is the goal. 2. in a tournament or fight, you unlease all your skill supported by all your physical attributes(e.g. size, strength,speed,etc)to end the match/fight as soon as possible. if a woman chooses to grapple with you it is disrespectful to "GO EASY ON HER".

08-06-2003, 02:20 PM	#9 (permalink)
Bjjexpertise@be Registered User Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: florida Posts: 1,852 Groans: 4 Groaned at 1 Time in 1 Post	Ghost and i have had this discussion before, he claims he'll let her mount him __________________ Mike Brewer's 2008 Athleticon Challenge!!! 45563 Pushups Completed 45563 Situps Completed

08-06-2003, 06:15 PM	#10 (permalink)
falcon3624 Registered User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Louisiana Posts: 946 Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	If you talk to BJJ4LIFE about it he would probably be disgusted at the idea or wrestling a woman. Give him a man though and you got a horny dog trying to hump everything he rubs against.

08-06-2003, 07:26 PM	#11 (permalink)
Thai Bri Premiere Member Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 5,423 Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	Is that why you asked for his telephone number?

08-06-2003, 07:49 PM	#12 (permalink)
Manufest Novice Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Canada, Ontario Posts: 84 Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	rofl

08-06-2003, 08:36 PM	#13 (permalink)
NHBMARK1 Registered User Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Massachusettes Posts: 143 Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	Usually with a great big woody.

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