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BE A BARTENDER, IT IT DOESN"T MATTER WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE YOU'LL HAVE MORE WOMEN THAN YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH I'M NOT JOKING
mike can back me up on this one
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Call me sober, but I'd rather meet women who are conscious, in the right frame of mind and able to pass a breathalizer at any given time (or atleast most of the time).
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however, Bars are one of the WORST places to meet women...Unless you like trouble and stress...I mean really, are there any success stories out there from bar encounters? getting laid in one night stands excluded.... |
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Whoever is on a first date with her!
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is it just me, or is it pretty tough to meet someone nice these days? every girl i see seems to already have a bf or is to busy with something else or there some problem that gets in the way. i thought once id turn 21, it would be easier cause i could go to bars, but boy was i mistaken. the bar/club scene is really horrible. whats a regular, average joe guy supposed to do ? do i just go about my business and hope i randomly meet someone one day or is there somthing im doing wrong? i heard a quote by bruce lee, he was talking about relationships and he said" dont seek, for it will come to u". do u guys agree with this? will it come to u when u least expect it or should u always actively be trying?
the one thing i fear most is becoming one of those older guys u see at strip clubs. u know the ones, with that sad look of lonliness and desperation on their faces, knowing the only female interaction they can ever get is one they have to pay for at a sleazy strip club. and then they get to go home alone and play with themselves the rest of the night while dreaming of a better day that they know will never come. ive seen the looks on these mens faces a few times, and i knew right then that id do anything it took not to end up like them....lonely, deprived, desperate and oh so sad. bad times. |
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You've got to find your niche. Something that you enjoy and can introduce you to alot of women in an environment that is comfortable for them. Some women are pretty gutsy though and can hang on their own no matter where and no matter what, but sadly alot of guys are intimidated by that.
For the most part, the biggest hang up women have is safety. They must feel comfortable around you. If you're a bigger guy and know you're a good guy, they will feel safe. If you're just an average guy but are trustworthy, they will feel safe. safety = trust. At the end of the day, any relationship that you might have will be built on trust. The bar scene is subpar; women hang out with their female friends to party and be their true selves that they hide from the rest of the world. If you want to see what women really think, sit nearby a group of girls at a bar on the weekend. Female bartenders can take their pick because guys are all over the place and usually they go for the guys that have alot of cash, great cars, deal drugs, are modelesque, are bartenders themselves or combinations of the above. Considering your personality, I'd recommend staying away from the bartenders. If you're going to a bar, you should go to see some old friends you haven't seen in a while, to relax if you need to or to celebrate with your classmates. Not a good idea for hook ups. Lastly and not least, women will allways tell you that they are looking for a nice guy. What they don't tell you is that they are really looking for a guy who they feel safe with and attracted to first, is a potential sex machine second (sometimes tied with first) and thirdly is a nice guy. You could also add earning potential to the list. Statistically speaking, nice guy is one out of about 5 qualities that a woman looks for and probably weighs about 20% into their initial impression. Guess what factors weight more? It starts with an attraction....
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