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ok has this ever happened to you> you're talking to a chick and you run out of stuff to talk about/ ask her about herself ect. ect ect. now normally I'd be interspercing the coversation with the grope game 101 but in this situation it's not going to be like that so what to do?????

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Sagacious Lu

The only thing I can suggest is to try to get her talking about something she's into and make it a point to take an interest in it. It might just be that she's shy and will be more open if you can make her feel comfortable with you. On the other hand you might just not have anything in common.

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ddrive

It's like what Chris Rock said. All you have to do is ask her the correct questions to get her to run her mouth. Also you have to do is see what she buys, and ask about it. Works for me.

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Ryan G

i've sat with this friend of mine who's a cute blonde, after smokking the sticki icki.... and had nothing to talk about for about an hour.
except for:
her "hey"
me "what"
her "how come u so quite?"
me "i'm stoned"

dont be scared, be prepared.

95 Mystic TA

Haha, I got a good laugh out of that one. I have the same problems at times when I'm around my g/f and trying not to come across as inebriated.

Eyegouge

ask lots of questions:
one of my favs

What do you do for fun?

Also don't be afraid to take the conversation into areas that might be taboo. Chicks always smile when you walk them into a conversation about sex. Make them laugh. If you can make them laugh and talk about sex with them at the same time, your in dude.

open ended questions man, listen to what they answer and comment on it. If your really at a loss, and she seems intelligent, bring up some current news. An intelligent conversation about a current issue is always a good thing.

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aseepish

When I was teaching English conversation in Japan, I frequently had to sustain a 40 minute conversation with someone while having them do 90% of the talking. Many times the student was shy and not so confident of their English ability. I agree with Eyegouge - ask a ton of questions! Every statement they make, ask a follow up question. Also, try to keep to the "wh" questions (who, what, when, where, why, etc.), rather than yes/no questions (do, are, etc.).

And make them laugh.

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jubaji

If you are asking a martial arts forum for advice on talking to women...




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jubaji

Those people were paying you to talk to them. That's kind of an important distinction.

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aseepish

I'm just a gigolo, an everywhere I go...

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Ryan G

yeah, that was a shame from yrs ago back in highschool.
good girls are harder and harder to find nowatdays, i believe it's the media and all the magazines that destroyed our men's natural chance of attracting women in the 1st place.
maybe im wrong, who knows, i guess its a part of growin up...

Ryan G

lol serious?

aseepish

Serious? Me? Never.

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