Fidelity

Garland · 10-21-2004, 09:23 PM

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Sensei Saki · 10-21-2004, 09:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Garland

Sensei,
I've recently entered a relationship where the girl basicly decided it would be an exclusive sort of thing, whereas...we are only seeing one another. After the first two weeks, she's started to flake out on me, i.e. calling and telling me how much she misses me, and how much she loves me, making plans to call or show up, and either never showing, or calling really late and saying that other things had come up. I know that she's a bit of a free spirit, and won't see her friends of family for days at a time, but when she promises to call, and doesn't, it makes me worry about the relationship, but, even more importantly, about her. (especially due to her history and the fact that she hitchhikes and walks alone at night)
She recently quit her job, she said she was feeling a bit depressed, and one of her female friends is having some problems.
Is it possible that she could have gotten bored with the relationship and just drawing out my suffering (leading me on, and telling me she loves me and wants to be with me, and then seemingly dodging and ducking me) instead of straight dropping me, is she cheating or doing weird shit that she doesn't want me to know about, or should I trust her?

Try saying that with more or less context.Do you think I am only seeing one another too?What was it like before the first two weeks she is started to flake out on him or her ie calling and telling him or her how much she misses him or her and how much she loves him or her making plans to call or show up and either never showing or calling really late and saying that other things had come up ?a bit of a free spirit and will not see her friends of family for days at a time but when she promises to call and does not it makes me worry about the relationship but even more importantly about her is a bit of a free spirit and will not see her friends of family for days at a time but when she promises to call and does not it makes me worry about the relationship but even more importantly about her ?Interesting explanation.
That is something I haven't heard of.
How about that.I suppose that she could have gotten bored with the relationship and just drawing out his or her suffering leading him or her on and telling him or her she loves him or her and wants to be with him or her and then seemingly dodging and ducking him or her instead of straight dropping him or her is she cheating or doing weird shit that she does not want him or her to know about or should he or she trust her is possible, yes.

Tom Yum · 10-23-2004, 11:55 PM

will you bounce for me?

10-21-2004, 09:23 PM	#1 (permalink)
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