BAD DREAMS/ trauma/question

Blue Wave Gym · 10-02-2005, 01:25 PM

sorry for posting this in here but I thought if anyone would know it would be you guys, ok I've never been in combat, been like raped/molested ect. but everything else/been in some very bad stuff that I'm not going to go into so the sickos can't get a semi, inspite of this, other than having what I'd describe as anger flare ups during the day where I wig out for like 2-3 seconds if I think about certain "incodents" I've got no probs, anyway a relitive of mine like does some kind of low volume screaming in their sleep and I have to wake them if I'm sleeping over there cause it keeps me awake, to my knowlegde this person hasn't been in like 1% of the shit I've been in and I NEVER have bad dreams about any of my past stuff the only thing I ever dream about is being able to fight again, run again and women that's it.My question is why is this person screaming in low volume in their sleep(btw they have a past history of mental probs) when they haven't been in like any bad stuff ,and I sleep like a baby with all the bad stuff I've got on my hard drive, so why the noise should they see someone about this???? they are a male family member btw.

**Hardball** · 10-02-2005, 03:23 PM

Dreams come from the subconcious mind, thus the person may not realize what the trauma is. It could be from early childhood or too painful for the concious mind to remember,. Self hypnosis tapes can help and so can a professional therapist. iF Drugs and or alchol are involved you have to be extra careful.

Garland · 10-02-2005, 07:22 PM

You're relative has some issues and a history of mental illness, correct? Moans in his sleep could be something related to his psychosis...if it's more of a gasping for air, then it's apnea, and has little to do with his mental state, and more to do with his physical state.

It's true, you could have supressed memories...but from what you say, it seems that you know EXACTLY what troubles you. This is a good thing, because with a little bit of therapy you can talk through it and learn to leave some more of it in the past.

Being able to fight again, run again? What happened?

SamuraiGuy · 10-02-2005, 07:55 PM

"Being able to fight again, run again? What happened?"

He picked an E-Fight with me lol...

Blue Wave Gym · 10-03-2005, 11:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Mike Brewer

If they have a history of mental problems, then yes, they should see a mental health professional. Of course, it sounds more like you're making a case for yourself here than asking about someone else. Are you looking for some kind of reassurance that you're not mentally disturbed, or are you asking for your friend?

I've never heard of this type of behavior before, I don't need anybodies "reassurance" about my mental state, in fact if there was a laundry machine where you could put your brain in, put it on permant press I'd do it. But this person's night time symphony is wierd imho. So wtf?

**Hardball** · 10-03-2005, 12:13 PM

Dang, Mike, it sounds like sparring time again. LOL

Blue Wave Gym · 10-03-2005, 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Hardball

Dang, Mike, it sounds like sparring time again. LOL

Mucoh props to brewer, thank god the internet is anoymous cause I wouldn't blab about like 90% of the stuff I do to anyone ever!!! I don't think I'm alone on this one either

Blue Wave Gym · 10-03-2005, 01:23 PM

and thanks for all the advice, the only reason I used myself as a compairson is I can't figure out wtf could be bothering this person and I have never heard of this type of phenomia before, the only thing I can think of would be someone in a war or a chick that got raped having like ptsd or something, some people don't belive in that anyhow.In the future I'll s.t.f.u about anything about me as it's in my rearview mirror anyway, So I won't say another word abot it thanks for the good advice and sorry if I pissed you off in any way

**Hardball** · 10-03-2005, 04:04 PM

Hey Mike,

Stop by my thread when you get some free time. It is entitled "Boxing as a self Defense Art" I'd like to hear your input.

Garland · 10-03-2005, 06:36 PM

everyone has issues. it's part of life and nothing to be ashamed of. neither is seeking help when you need it.
perhaps your relative should consult a sleep center as well as a psychologist, because from what I've heard, his condition might not be just mental, it could be a semi-serious physiological affliction known as sleep apnea. It is when a person, for whatever reason, stops breathing for a few seconds while sleeping. Gasping or moaning, sucking for air...all tell-tale symptoms.

or is he screaming or crying?

10-02-2005, 01:25 PM	#1 (permalink)
Blue Wave Gym Registered User Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: minnesota Posts: 960 Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	BAD DREAMS/ trauma/question sorry for posting this in here but I thought if anyone would know it would be you guys, ok I've never been in combat, been like raped/molested ect. but everything else/been in some very bad stuff that I'm not going to go into so the sickos can't get a semi, inspite of this, other than having what I'd describe as anger flare ups during the day where I wig out for like 2-3 seconds if I think about certain "incodents" I've got no probs, anyway a relitive of mine like does some kind of low volume screaming in their sleep and I have to wake them if I'm sleeping over there cause it keeps me awake, to my knowlegde this person hasn't been in like 1% of the shit I've been in and I NEVER have bad dreams about any of my past stuff the only thing I ever dream about is being able to fight again, run again and women that's it.My question is why is this person screaming in low volume in their sleep(btw they have a past history of mental probs) when they haven't been in like any bad stuff ,and I sleep like a baby with all the bad stuff I've got on my hard drive, so why the noise should they see someone about this???? they are a male family member btw. __________________ Tiens, voila du boudin, voila du boudin, voila du boudin Pour les Alsaciens, les Suisses, et les Lorrains Pour les Belges, il n'y en a plus, pour les Belges, il n'y en a plus Ce sont des tireurs au cul. Tireurs au cul

10-02-2005, 03:23 PM	#2 (permalink)
Hardball Premiere Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 3,404 Groans: 0 Groaned at 1 Time in 1 Post	Dreams come from the subconcious mind, thus the person may not realize what the trauma is. It could be from early childhood or too painful for the concious mind to remember,. Self hypnosis tapes can help and so can a professional therapist. iF Drugs and or alchol are involved you have to be extra careful. __________________ The Way of the Warrior is Practice. Daily practice, accumulate practice minute by minute, hour by hour and day by day. {Book of 5 Rings} Mike Brewers 2008 Sit up challenge 50,000/100,000 running balance.(Crunches) Kicks 6,300/100,000

10-02-2005, 07:22 PM	#3 (permalink)
Garland Registered User Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Salt Lake City Posts: 5,013 Groans: 1 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	You're relative has some issues and a history of mental illness, correct? Moans in his sleep could be something related to his psychosis...if it's more of a gasping for air, then it's apnea, and has little to do with his mental state, and more to do with his physical state. It's true, you could have supressed memories...but from what you say, it seems that you know EXACTLY what troubles you. This is a good thing, because with a little bit of therapy you can talk through it and learn to leave some more of it in the past. Being able to fight again, run again? What happened? __________________ homo homini lupus

10-02-2005, 07:55 PM	#4 (permalink)
SamuraiGuy Registered User Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 1,866 Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	"Being able to fight again, run again? What happened?" He picked an E-Fight with me lol... __________________ "a few User CP's that are pretty significant ones(like a BoarSpear or SamuraiGuy one). " - GracieHunter I choke people, I dont poke people. -- Me Were you born to resist or be abused? I swear I'll never give in, I refuse. -- Foo Fighters I want a girl that spends more time on her back than Royce Gracie. I'll knee you in the face like your name was Josh Koschek -- Me

10-03-2005, 12:13 PM	#6 (permalink)
Hardball Premiere Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 3,404 Groans: 0 Groaned at 1 Time in 1 Post	Dang, Mike, it sounds like sparring time again. LOL __________________ The Way of the Warrior is Practice. Daily practice, accumulate practice minute by minute, hour by hour and day by day. {Book of 5 Rings} Mike Brewers 2008 Sit up challenge 50,000/100,000 running balance.(Crunches) Kicks 6,300/100,000

10-03-2005, 01:23 PM	#8 (permalink)
Blue Wave Gym Registered User Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: minnesota Posts: 960 Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	actually I'm pretty good now mike and thanks for all the advice, the only reason I used myself as a compairson is I can't figure out wtf could be bothering this person and I have never heard of this type of phenomia before, the only thing I can think of would be someone in a war or a chick that got raped having like ptsd or something, some people don't belive in that anyhow.In the future I'll s.t.f.u about anything about me as it's in my rearview mirror anyway, So I won't say another word abot it thanks for the good advice and sorry if I pissed you off in any way __________________ Tiens, voila du boudin, voila du boudin, voila du boudin Pour les Alsaciens, les Suisses, et les Lorrains Pour les Belges, il n'y en a plus, pour les Belges, il n'y en a plus Ce sont des tireurs au cul. Tireurs au cul

10-03-2005, 04:04 PM	#9 (permalink)
Hardball Premiere Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 3,404 Groans: 0 Groaned at 1 Time in 1 Post	Hey Mike, Stop by my thread when you get some free time. It is entitled "Boxing as a self Defense Art" I'd like to hear your input. __________________ The Way of the Warrior is Practice. Daily practice, accumulate practice minute by minute, hour by hour and day by day. {Book of 5 Rings} Mike Brewers 2008 Sit up challenge 50,000/100,000 running balance.(Crunches) Kicks 6,300/100,000

10-03-2005, 06:36 PM	#10 (permalink)
Garland Registered User Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Salt Lake City Posts: 5,013 Groans: 1 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	everyone has issues. it's part of life and nothing to be ashamed of. neither is seeking help when you need it. perhaps your relative should consult a sleep center as well as a psychologist, because from what I've heard, his condition might not be just mental, it could be a semi-serious physiological affliction known as sleep apnea. It is when a person, for whatever reason, stops breathing for a few seconds while sleeping. Gasping or moaning, sucking for air...all tell-tale symptoms. or is he screaming or crying? __________________ homo homini lupus

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