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Testament · 10-24-2004, 05:34 PM

well there is a few people who have a quarrell with me. I didnt do shit to deserve it really, just some highschool bully bullshit maybe? They constantly harrass my friends and me, talk shit. CHallenge me to fights and crap, ive been avoiding it because its stupid. But i have a feeling i might have to fight one of them adventually. Im confident tho, ive been taking MT for 2 months, i feel stronger and more skilled everyday.

EmptyneSs · 10-24-2004, 10:19 PM

keep training, and try to stay away from those people as much as possible. personally i wouldnt let that kind of shit fly at all cause it will get worse if u dont do anything about it, but i dont know what your skill level and physical condition is so i couldnt reccomend u put them in their place. getting harrassed constantly isnt too cool, and nobody should have to be subjected to that. if its just stupid shit though, just stay away.

**HtTKar** · 10-24-2004, 10:45 PM

"a wise man once told me never fight with a fool
cause people from a distance cant tell who is who"

Testament · 10-24-2004, 11:22 PM

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Originally Posted by EmptyneSs

keep training, and try to stay away from those people as much as possible. personally i wouldnt let that kind of shit fly at all cause it will get worse if u dont do anything about it, but i dont know what your skill level and physical condition is so i couldnt reccomend u put them in their place. getting harrassed constantly isnt too cool, and nobody should have to be subjected to that. if its just stupid shit though, just stay away.

well this is my condition, 130lb, lean muscle pretty much.

sanshou2 · 10-25-2004, 12:04 AM

just fight them and they will leave you alone.

Tom Yum · 10-25-2004, 01:25 AM

Have you considered learning how to verbally handle them first.

If they talk $h!t, tell em you want it in writing or F-off and stop waisting your time. That'll piss em off even more cause bullies hate getting caught, but more importantly you know have a written record of what they've been saying.

So what if you're only 130 lbs. It doesn't take a lot of force to knock a person out at the chin. I remember one time when we had a 200 lb sub dude holding the focus mitts for this 130 lb woman. The woman had been training for a year or so and was pretty hard core. During one of the exchances, the mitt holder held the mitt too close too his chin and she threw a cross that landed straight on. He got jarred and lost his balance.

Don't let them push on you, but document everything first.

Testament · 10-25-2004, 01:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tom Yum

Have you considered learning how to verbally handle them first.

If they talk $h!t, tell em you want it in writing or F-off and stop waisting your time. That'll piss em off even more cause bullies hate getting caught, but more importantly you know have a written record of what they've been saying.

So what if you're only 130 lbs. It doesn't take a lot of force to knock a person out at the chin. I remember one time when we had a 200 lb sub dude holding the focus mitts for this 130 lb woman. The woman had been training for a year or so and was pretty hard core. During one of the exchances, the mitt holder held the mitt too close too his chin and she threw a cross that landed straight on. He got jarred and lost his balance.

Don't let them push on you, but document everything first.

oh they have harrased me on aim, and talked shit on aim to me. I dont have it saved tho, maybe i should of saved it. These guys arent big or buff or anything, one is about the same size as me, and the other is just a flabby fat shit.

EmptyneSs · 10-25-2004, 03:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Testament

well this is my condition, 130lb, lean muscle pretty much.

ok so ur small and not very built.i wouldnt reccomend u try fighting yet. u need to train hard and lift some weights.train hard for a year consistently, few times every week, lift weights, and boost ur cardio endurance and u should be able to kick some ass. also do tons of sparring, at least twice a week. thats just my opinion though.

btw u better not be ajay/little dragon posting his pics again

Testament · 10-25-2004, 03:19 AM

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Originally Posted by EmptyneSs

ok so ur small and not very built.i wouldnt reccomend u try fighting yet. u need to train hard and lift some weights.train hard for a year consistently, few times every week, lift weights, and boost ur cardio endurance and u should be able to kick some ass. also do tons of sparring, at least twice a week. thats just my opinion though.

btw u better not be ajay/little dragon posting his pics again

uh i dont know who that is, but i have been lifting, sparring, and doing cardio. But its not like the guys who are giving me shit are built either...

South Carolina · 10-25-2004, 01:43 PM

teep kick, knee, cutting elbow. in that order

TheDeadlySquid · 10-25-2004, 03:18 PM

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Originally Posted by South Carolina

teep kick, knee, cutting elbow. in that order

Nice combo.

TheDeadlySquid

Testament · 10-25-2004, 05:12 PM

teep kick?

TheDeadlySquid · 10-25-2004, 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Testament

teep kick?

Push Kick (right to the face preferably).

TheDeadlySquid

MAfans · 10-25-2004, 05:56 PM

man, the greatest victory is the one you can gain without a fight, come on, control yourself, all the guy wants is to bring you into the edge, if u r going to fight, your playing his game and u loose. Thinki about it, martial art is not for harming others, it's for self-defense and to defend the weakiest, until now, he didn't attack u physically.

Beside, you've only been train for 2 month, come on man, it's not like if you were training for a long long time and if you want to lift weight, usually it takes 3-4 months of training to get results.

The best solution is to not fall in the game of the other one, but if he attacks u, show him what u got! I'm from Quebec, Canada so my english is not perfect, sorry.

dkm · 10-26-2004, 10:07 AM

to the original poster,

Having been in the similar situation when I was in HS.....here is what worked....

talking to bullies does not work! Physically fighting with them at the risk of getting hurt did work. I didn't even know how to fight back them. Once three guys at a time started hitting/messing with me for no reason. I finally had enough and went ballistic on them. I was eventually tackled down, but I got a few good shots in. Sure I got physically hurt, but that was temporary compared to the emotional pride that will last forever. They promised to get me after school...many bullies have promised me this.........it never happened. I am not saying that they won't get you after school neither, but all I am saying is that either call the police or fight.

10-24-2004, 05:34 PM	#1 (permalink)
Testament Registered User Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 8 Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	People well there is a few people who have a quarrell with me. I didnt do shit to deserve it really, just some highschool bully bullshit maybe? They constantly harrass my friends and me, talk shit. CHallenge me to fights and crap, ive been avoiding it because its stupid. But i have a feeling i might have to fight one of them adventually. Im confident tho, ive been taking MT for 2 months, i feel stronger and more skilled everyday.

10-25-2004, 12:04 AM	#5 (permalink)
sanshou2 Registered User Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: oakland, california Posts: 23 Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	just fight them and they will leave you alone. __________________ Be like water

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10-24-2004, 10:19 PM	#2 (permalink)
EmptyneSs Registered User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Cali Posts: 2,120 Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	keep training, and try to stay away from those people as much as possible. personally i wouldnt let that kind of shit fly at all cause it will get worse if u dont do anything about it, but i dont know what your skill level and physical condition is so i couldnt reccomend u put them in their place. getting harrassed constantly isnt too cool, and nobody should have to be subjected to that. if its just stupid shit though, just stay away.

10-24-2004, 10:45 PM	#3 (permalink)
HtTKar Premiere Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Outer limits Posts: 1,089 Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	"a wise man once told me never fight with a fool cause people from a distance cant tell who is who"

10-25-2004, 01:25 AM	#6 (permalink)
Tom Yum Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Here and there. Posts: 11,307 Groans: 1 Groaned at 4 Times in 4 Posts	Have you considered learning how to verbally handle them first. If they talk $h!t, tell em you want it in writing or F-off and stop waisting your time. That'll piss em off even more cause bullies hate getting caught, but more importantly you know have a written record of what they've been saying. So what if you're only 130 lbs. It doesn't take a lot of force to knock a person out at the chin. I remember one time when we had a 200 lb sub dude holding the focus mitts for this 130 lb woman. The woman had been training for a year or so and was pretty hard core. During one of the exchances, the mitt holder held the mitt too close too his chin and she threw a cross that landed straight on. He got jarred and lost his balance. Don't let them push on you, but document everything first.

10-25-2004, 01:43 PM	#10 (permalink)
South Carolina Registered User Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 12 Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	teep kick, knee, cutting elbow. in that order

10-25-2004, 05:12 PM	#12 (permalink)
Testament Registered User Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 8 Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	teep kick?

10-25-2004, 05:56 PM	#14 (permalink)
MAfans Registered User Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 31 Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	man, the greatest victory is the one you can gain without a fight, come on, control yourself, all the guy wants is to bring you into the edge, if u r going to fight, your playing his game and u loose. Thinki about it, martial art is not for harming others, it's for self-defense and to defend the weakiest, until now, he didn't attack u physically. Beside, you've only been train for 2 month, come on man, it's not like if you were training for a long long time and if you want to lift weight, usually it takes 3-4 months of training to get results. The best solution is to not fall in the game of the other one, but if he attacks u, show him what u got! I'm from Quebec, Canada so my english is not perfect, sorry.

10-26-2004, 10:07 AM	#15 (permalink)
dkm Registered User Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 286 Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	to the original poster, Having been in the similar situation when I was in HS.....here is what worked.... talking to bullies does not work! Physically fighting with them at the risk of getting hurt did work. I didn't even know how to fight back them. Once three guys at a time started hitting/messing with me for no reason. I finally had enough and went ballistic on them. I was eventually tackled down, but I got a few good shots in. Sure I got physically hurt, but that was temporary compared to the emotional pride that will last forever. They promised to get me after school...many bullies have promised me this.........it never happened. I am not saying that they won't get you after school neither, but all I am saying is that either call the police or fight.

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