Great, oh enlightened one...jj.
Women who are smart and good looking are everywhere as are women who aren't. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
The bottom line is her personality? Is she a psycho-beotch or not? Is she comfortable with herself or not? Is she natural or is she fake, and I am referring to her personality Is she a warm or cold person? Does she think she can change you or does she accept you?
And last but not least, does she enjoy cooking?
Before you color my message with cheavanistic responses, I think that cooking is a gift or skill, not any kind of indentured requirement. How is it that a white guy like myself can make one hell of a thai dish, while some Asian girls I know can't make kraft mac & cheese?