Respect Women

**hulk55** · 08-18-2003, 02:57 PM

I would just like to say that I greatly respect women who can defend themselves against strong men. I just really love women who are stronger and better than me. It makes me think "What a Woman" a lot of times. I believe that women are equal to men in a lot of things, including physical strength. Men are generally better with the upper body and women are generally better with they're lower body, but if either women can surpass men in upper body strength also then I really admire their abilities. Also, if those women are smart, have a good job, and are good looking. If I was with a woman who got payed more than me or was better than me in any way, I would feel great.

**Tom Yum** · 08-18-2003, 03:13 PM

Great, oh enlightened one...jj.

Women who are smart and good looking are everywhere as are women who aren't. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

The bottom line is her personality? Is she a psycho-beotch or not? Is she comfortable with herself or not? Is she natural or is she fake, and I am referring to her personality

Is she a warm or cold person? Does she think she can change you or does she accept you?

And last but not least, does she enjoy cooking?

Before you color my message with cheavanistic responses, I think that cooking is a gift or skill, not any kind of indentured requirement. How is it that a white guy like myself can make one hell of a thai dish, while some Asian girls I know can't make kraft mac & cheese?

**Flipper** · 08-18-2003, 11:19 PM

Originally posted by Tom Yum
Before you color my message with cheavanistic responses, I think that cooking is a gift or skill, not any kind of indentured requirement. How is it that a white guy like myself can make one hell of a thai dish, while some Asian girls I know can't make kraft mac & cheese?

People in general who can't boil water, let alone cook, are one of two things that I can think of:

1. Have no aptitude for cooking (as in they were let in the kitchen a couple of times, but both times they just about burnt the building down, so they have now been band from the kitchen by the Fire Department).

2. Totally bone lazy.

**Mr. Heel Hook** · 08-19-2003, 09:51 AM

Christ...I hope Lorne doesn't see this. I don't want to have to see this filled with messages of men and their evil towards women.

**kengar** · 08-19-2003, 11:41 AM

Originally posted by Tom Yum
Great, oh enlightened one...jj.

Women who are smart and good looking are everywhere as are women who aren't. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

The bottom line is her personality? Is she a psycho-beotch or not? Is she comfortable with herself or not? Is she natural or is she fake, and I am referring to her personality Is she a warm or cold person? Does she think she can change you or does she accept you?

And last but not least, does she enjoy cooking?

Before you color my message with cheavanistic responses, I think that cooking is a gift or skill, not any kind of indentured requirement. How is it that a white guy like myself can make one hell of a thai dish, while some Asian girls I know can't make kraft mac & cheese?

Couldn't agree with you more. I'm a carnivore so most of my cooking is over flames, but I'm not scared to the mighty oven.

**Flipper** · 08-19-2003, 10:19 PM

Originally posted by Mr. Heel Hook
Christ...I hope Lorne doesn't see this. I don't want to have to see this filled with messages of men and their evil towards women.

Yes, I did try at one stage to read some of her writings, but both the times my mind kept wondering, so I gave up. As a rule I don't read her postings anymore. I am glad we only have to deal with her in writing and not in person

**Wearing Grey** · 08-19-2003, 10:35 PM

Hey Flipper, could not agree with you more on that one.

Just a little note for you. Lorne is a GUY not a chick. Are you shocked??? I was

WG

**Flipper** · 08-19-2003, 11:10 PM

Originally posted by Wearing Grey
Hey Flipper, could not agree with you more on that one.

Just a little note for you. Lorne is a GUY not a chick. Are you shocked??? I was

WG

Shocked to my painted toe nails! Are you sure? He rants on like a raging feminist

It's very hard work trying to correct the damage people like him cause

**Tom Yum** · 08-19-2003, 11:38 PM

I have to agree flipper. People can respect women, but sometimes feminism taken to a high degree can have negative side effects.

This article made a statement that women should be respected and I think most people don't have a problem with that.

I think the fastest way a woman can loose her respect is through complicated contradictions.

These are things I hear in public eavesdropping not verbatum but the meaning is clearly understood.

"I want to have a nice family and 3 kids someday, but I am an extremely impatient person and have a cold personality"

"Weddings are all about the dress and ring, not about a relationship"

"I can work a 70 hour per week high stress job, raise 2 kids, please my husband and excercise on a regular basis"

Geez, whatever happened to simplicity?

**Flipper** · 08-20-2003, 12:08 AM

Damn, this sounds like a bit of a problem really

**hulk55** · 08-20-2003, 11:17 AM

Yes, if a woman has too much control, it is very bad. But what I mean is I hate women who don't do anything, including cook. The ones that don't cook and announce it to everyone annoys me a lot. I just mean that women who can do things a man could and still maintain her feminine side is what I like.

**number18** · 09-14-2003, 05:09 PM

This...is a VERY...strange post.

What are your thoughts on women who can't defend themselves against "strong men," hulk? O,o;

Don't worry though - I won't go crazy supah feminist psycho on you for your answer...

**Lizard** · 09-16-2003, 10:08 AM

"Respect women"

Make me.

Seriously though my respect is not given, it must be earned (heard that one so many times I don't know who I've stolen it from).

"If I was with a woman who got payed more than me or was better than me in any way, I would feel great."

Are you saying something about you wanting to be dominated or something? Have I wandered into the Strange sexual preferences thread?