Wow. I didn’t think anyone would respond, so thanks for all the suggestions. As you can probably tell, I know nothing about martial arts, so this is just me doing research for my book. 
So far I like Wing Chun the most, because I have settled on China. But you don’t have to be concerned with what was popular at the time, because that doesn’t add into it at all.
It sounds to me like it is of some importance what gender his teacher/lover was, so yes, it was indeed a man. I was just being vague about the gender because I didn’t want people to go, “Ewww! Gay! I’m not touching that question!”
He himself is of course also very vague about his past relationships, so he is not “faggy” with limp wrists and a lisp. He does however have a feminine quality to him, that makes women flock around him because he comes off a sensitive and romantic gentleman. He is a bit of a James Bond parody in that if he wanted he could sleep with a new woman every nigh.
But I would prefer for the martial art style to be for both men and women, because he mentions that his lover had a daughter who was way more skilled at fighting than him, because she obviously trained for a longer time, and while she doesn’t show up in this story, I would like for her to make an appearance later.

So far I like Wing Chun the most, because I have settled on China. But you don’t have to be concerned with what was popular at the time, because that doesn’t add into it at all.
It sounds to me like it is of some importance what gender his teacher/lover was, so yes, it was indeed a man. I was just being vague about the gender because I didn’t want people to go, “Ewww! Gay! I’m not touching that question!”
He himself is of course also very vague about his past relationships, so he is not “faggy” with limp wrists and a lisp. He does however have a feminine quality to him, that makes women flock around him because he comes off a sensitive and romantic gentleman. He is a bit of a James Bond parody in that if he wanted he could sleep with a new woman every nigh.

But I would prefer for the martial art style to be for both men and women, because he mentions that his lover had a daughter who was way more skilled at fighting than him, because she obviously trained for a longer time, and while she doesn’t show up in this story, I would like for her to make an appearance later.
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