high school kid problem

[Lizard]

I think your all being a bit harsh, this is uncertain about what to do in a fight so he came to you, because you have studied various ways of fighting. I know high school fights may seem tedious but to those involved its a very serious situation.

Simple techniques and lots of anger should serve you well. Dont bother with one of those "he punches me so i kick him and he bends over so i elbow him" type plans, anything could happen, you have to be spontanious. Good luck.

[BadgerFu57]

go join a martial arts class. make time. if you want advice from a martial artist, it is this....

1. don't fight unless you have to
2. don't look for the quick fix, there really isn't one.

obviously, you want us to tell you a secret chi touch that will disable your opponent and that you can learn in 2 days. It doesn't work that way. Take your chances with strength, speed, and luck or go pay your dues in a dojo and learn skill and technique.

You sound too lazy to put in the required training, so I am hoping you get a lucky hit in and win the 'fight'.

[Lizard]

go join a martial arts class. make time. if you want advice from a martial artist, it is this....

1. don't fight unless you have to
2. don't look for the quick fix, there really isn't one.

obviously, you want us to tell you a secret chi touch that will disable your opponent and that you can learn in 2 days. It doesn't work that way. Take your chances with strength, speed, and luck or go pay your dues in a dojo and learn skill and technique.

You sound too lazy to put in the required training, so I am hoping you get a lucky hit in and win the 'fight'.

Im not so sure that taking lessons will improve his chances as much as you suggest, the techniques may or may not be of some use, the thing that needs to be improved is the mind, im better at fighting than i used to be because im more aggressive and confident. These things are vitaly important but generaly not a part of a dojo's syllabus.

[Combat Cherokee]

Treat Him like the way he treats you.

Dude check this, Im a good fighter, and I get hit, people in K-1 UFC and PRIDE are professional fighters and they get hit. Kid if your not a good fighter, your gonna get hit, theres no way to avoid that. If your only fear is your braces attack him with a mouth gaurd on, it will be premeditated, but hey, your teeth are in tip top shape

DO NOT attack the guy, its not worth it, and who acres what type of shpe hes in, Im 5'5 150 lbs, and work crowd control for metal concerts. Ive seen fights break out with scrawny guys againt huge dude, and their sheer will to fight helped them rip the guys up. Ive seen doped up loser knock out trained fighters just cause they wouldnt go down, and their threshold of pain was incredible.

You cannot avoid reality, when punches fly, people get hit. My 4 front teeth are fake or patched up(now that expensive) and thats the last thing on my mind when danger is at me doorstep.

Dont fight him, theirs better things to do in life, high school is just a blink of an eye, this will pass. If hes after you, walk with friends(big strong friends who dont wanna see you hurt, and always be aware of teachers, aids, and security gaurds so you can go to them fast if the poops about to hit the fan.

-C-

[Die]

go join a martial arts class. make time. if you want advice from a martial artist, it is this....

1. don't fight unless you have to
2. don't look for the quick fix, there really isn't one.

obviously, you want us to tell you a secret chi touch that will disable your opponent and that you can learn in 2 days. It doesn't work that way. Take your chances with strength, speed, and luck or go pay your dues in a dojo and learn skill and technique.

You sound too lazy to put in the required training, so I am hoping you get a lucky hit in and win the 'fight'.

lol i was gonna tap him hard in the shoulder and make him fall to the groudn in a coma... lol.

[Die]

Dude check this, Im a good fighter, and I get hit, people in K-1 UFC and PRIDE are professional fighters and they get hit. Kid if your not a good fighter, your gonna get hit, theres no way to avoid that. If your only fear is your braces attack him with a mouth gaurd on, it will be premeditated, but hey, your teeth are in tip top shape

DO NOT attack the guy, its not worth it, and who acres what type of shpe hes in, Im 5'5 150 lbs, and work crowd control for metal concerts. Ive seen fights break out with scrawny guys againt huge dude, and their sheer will to fight helped them rip the guys up. Ive seen doped up loser knock out trained fighters just cause they wouldnt go down, and their threshold of pain was incredible.

You cannot avoid reality, when punches fly, people get hit. My 4 front teeth are fake or patched up(now that expensive) and thats the last thing on my mind when danger is at me doorstep.

Dont fight him, theirs better things to do in life, high school is just a blink of an eye, this will pass. If hes after you, walk with friends(big strong friends who dont wanna see you hurt, and always be aware of teachers, aids, and security gaurds so you can go to them fast if the poops about to hit the fan.

-C-

you're a wise man. i'm your size only 30 pounds lighter.

[Tommy DeVito]

get in him like you will talk to his face to scare him and headbutt his nose. One of you sure will be k.o.ed.

[rkcann01]

It's good to avoid the fight if you can, but screw that. This is reality, and you will probably end up confronting this guy. If not him, then it will be with someone else at some time in your future. So... forget all the fair fighting crap, and toss out the mentality that grabbing balls or whatever is girly. (Always) Be the first one to throw a blow, and fight as dirty as you can. Someone posted that you should get involved with martial arts, but that's not gonna help you now. If anything, you need to act like your one crazy mofo.

[Combat Cherokee]

Dude Chill!!!

Good God Man, this isnt some crazy wacko from hell who's trying to rape and kill the poor boy in the middle of some hard town.

Its a high school punk, who just having a pissing contest all by himself.

Theres no need to fight him, if he attacks him thats different, but why would you go looking for a fight? With that mentallity he might as well hit himself first and save the punk some trouble. If an allegator walked into his pool one day he wouldnt go and wrestle the darned thing just cause he saw some crazy aussie do it. Hed avoid the thing then find a propper person to remove and relocate it.

This is high school, not a gang war, its just a few short years and you can live fine without fighting the guy.

Reality is that the guy MAY attack or wanna fight him, and when this happens you gotta do what you gotta do. reality is not Im unpreparred, dont know how to fight, scared to get hit, dont know if hed have friends that would wanna come after me afterwards, so ill go to him attack him first and evrything will be dandy. If he dose that not only will he still get hurt, he will be the aggressor, he will be punished, and if his school was anything like mine was, hell be expelled and sent to juvy for the rest of his high school days.

Theres just no need to ruin his record with something so futile as abully. I had plenty of kids pick on me in highschool, BECAUSE they knew I could fight( I had been in fights that were spontaneus jumping of me or my friends). What did I do I ignored them, but was aware of them, I didnt start crap but was prepared for it. This is highschool focus on what you need to do to get out of there and start something great in your life, not what bully is picking on you.

-C-

[adacas]

In fact, this post is almost exactly the same as hand2hand's post about a bigger opponent. Which is maing me think DIE is HAND2HAND. So DIE if you are not H2H in split personality mode go to his post to read similar nonsense as you posted.

Its not H2H I'm sure of it but its just some kind of mental disorder highschool kids go through. They have an immortality complex and deny it, act all knowing and then pretend to be humble, and etc, etc. I used to be like that myself and I'm sure many of you as well. But then something happened that changed our outlook on things...our balls dropped, our voices got deeper and we started growing pubes. jk If some dude has a problem with you just laugh it off. Thats his problem and if he wants to waste his time then let him. Meanwhile you are free to use your time on more pressing issues that all highschool males need to work on...getting laid. Now laugh my friend...laugh all the way to the convenience store, buy yourself some trojans and put them to use. Not that I endorse underage sex but I don't endorse blue balls either.

[rkcann01]

good point. Maybe him and the bully can get laid together. That always makes a relationship closer.

[gracilva]

put a "hit" out on him. end of problem

[foxman]

Frankly i agree with adacas, this forum is not for giving advice to guys who do not learn MA but would like to know how to defend themselves. "everyone has a plan, until you punch them in the mouth" - mike tyson, consider this quote before you go making plans on what you are going to do. In the long term, if you want to be more confident then learn a MA or attend self defense classes. there is really no short way, and if you are short on time, how is it that you find time to come on this forum and talk, perhaps it would be better to attend a class instead? .....

[WiLd-EyEd]

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[WiLd-EyEd]

he has a problem with me, and i've been ignoring it but now he's starting to get on my nerves and i know i'm a lot stronger than he is and probably have faster (reflex wise) than he.

Go at 'im! Beat the shit outta him! Do it right in class. Doesnt matter if you know what your doing or not- mos fighting is instinctual anyways. He'll fihght back but in a real fight theres usually no winners anyways. After that he'llleave ya alone cause he knows your not intimidated.

Life is too short to live in fear. Burn like a blaze!

It's better to die on your feet than to live on your knees. Well, soimetimes its better on your knees but thats a differn situation altogether, ifyouknow
whatI mean...