an essay on anger and fighting

[Sensei Saki]

RE: Is...?

OK.
Quite honestly, I wouldn't worry myself about that.Why?:
said hate.What does "it" refer to?Interesting.
Why can't you do stop hating them?
What you said was either too complex or too simple for me.

[bbbb]

I....

..want bloody revenge.

Is that O.K.?

[SamuraiGuy]

Everyone says Pride has better fighters.... Pride this Pride that.....

Wanderlei is amazing, im not trying to say hes bad or anything, but he has lost to Ortiz and Belfort...

He's also lost to guys in Pride and that, despite what people believe, he isnt invincible.

Pride has far better heavyweights, the only good one UFC has is Arvloski, and even he hasnt been proven against a "A" grade fighter.

Light-Heavy -- I think Couture could take Wanderlei in the cage.... it all depends on whos rules you use though thats the big thing, how would Wanderlei deal with elbows, or being stacked against the cage?

MiddleWeight- UFC middle weight is 185, Pride Middleweight is 205, so im gonna say Rich Franklin can kill any 185 Pride fighter, especially in the octagon.

WelterWeight -- Uhh Matt Hughes.... (plus two others soon to fight)

LightWeight -- Not really certain about this, but I've read alot of things saying UFC has better guys.


Alot of the time the UFC will have a better champion than pride. It all depends on the rules though so you cant really compare the two.

[Blue Wave Gym]

Lol

You didn't put enough angst into your "dark gothic poem".
Let me show you how it is done:

Whirling Twirling Darkness
Like the darkness within my soul eating at my heart
The fly
My soul
The fly
Whirling Twirling Darkness
Like angst filled hatred plunging into the depths of space
The fly
My soul
The fly
Whirling Twirling Darkness
Like Lamps over a dark and gloomy defiled heart
The fly
My soul
The fly
Whirling Twirling Darkness
Heart of darkness
Greatest movie ever.

BTW Did I mention hate goths too

[Blue Wave Gym]

U.S. Army been there done that

Hmmm from I your little essay I gathered... you like to hurt people, and hate all the time that your not doing it....

When people say they like to hurt people there is something wrong with them, its like that Jeremy Horn guy who is soon to fight Chuck Lidell. "I fight because I like to hurt people"....

I think people who say that are just fooling themselves, if he really wanted to hurt people, wouldnt he just be a serial killer, or torture people, or even join the army... I mean in a war youd hurt alot more people than in MMA.

I love MMA but I dont fight because I like to hurt people, I like it cause its the ultimate form of competition, inflicting pain on the opponent is part of it, and I dont mind doing it, if your doing it cause you like to hurt people.... you need help.

Thats my opinion on it anyway.

back in the day,that is

[Blue Wave Gym]

good points

[QUOTE=Ahoym8e]The level of hate you expressed for yourself and everything around you is cause for concern (or should be for you). It is not normal. Many people experience happiness just randomly, and it is pleasant and enheartening. If you are incapable of experiencing this, it may be due to chemical imbalances in your body, etc. There is help for that (meds, counseling). Constant hate will make your life dysfunctional, make you unable to maintain normal relationships with family, friends, women etc., and you will end up in a downward spiral.

to answer your question though, the high of winning is offset by the crushing low of getting my ass kicked. Even when I win I might still get hurt: crank my shoulder, get my face mashed, break fingers, whatever. I get tired of that and reign myself in, pursuing MA's that have more of a technique aspect (BJJ for example), or do things outside of MA, like read books, or build race cars, or focus on getting promoted at work, whatever. It all makes me happy.[quote]

but after I'm done fighting I never fell most stuff untill the next day because I'm so jacked up in my little mode, plus I don't care if I get injured so long as I get the opportunity to have fun. You raised alot of good points though

[eXcessiveForce]

you need to go check with a psychologist. the behavior you describe is psychotic anti social behavior. Counseling would be wise or one day you may find yourself in trouble.

I am not kidding. I have worked in mental health and strongly recommend you talk to someone.

[danfaggella]

i've always considered showing emotion in a fight to be rather mentaly weak. I can use up all my energy and be very explosive and strong without needing to be angry.

i can control my hormones and keep a clear mind when fighting, without needing hate to give me strenth.

[SamuraiGuy]

"keep a clear mind when fighting, without needing hate to give me strenth."

what are you some sort of Jedi knight, watchout your gonna get tricked into the darkside, BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA.....

"Let the hate flow through you"

[Blue Wave Gym]

thanks mike

I'm trying to find an anger managment group in my area but can't, I've looked on the net and in newspapers but to no avail, it's got to be like an self-help type group for angry people, and I'm not paying someone money for it either and I'd like to remain anyomous if possible any search ideas guys?

[EmptyneSs]

dude, u just need a gf. go get a new gf that has a really nice ass, and a crackin set of tits, u will be fine.

[Drache]

I think I can help you.

GOOOS FRAAAAH BAAAH, GOOOS FRAAAH BAAAH. Chant this over and over while pleasuring yourself to Asian porn. If that doesn't work, take up Tai Chi with the old people in the park for a few years and move around like you're in the matrix movie and bullets are coming at you. After you master this and are still feeling the same way, call up mom and dad and explain to them how they failed and you're damaged goods and if they know any fat chicks with low self esteem that would put up with your tantrums.

Anyway,

Wanderlei is amazing, im not trying to say hes bad or anything, but he has lost to Ortiz and Belfort...

Not flaming you but look at the footage, the ref stopped the fight when Silva fell over from Belfort's punches but he was not even near injured or KO'd. Silva even looked up at the ref like he was thinking "WTF? Why did you stop it here? I'm a kickboxer and I take more punishment than that while training."

how would Wanderlei deal with elbows

You have never seen some of Wanderlei's first Brazilian matches? Elbows were allowed, even to the back of the head. Also headbutting was allowed. he was used to, and enjoyed, this form of fighting.

Not really certain about this, but I've read alot of things saying UFC has better guys.

Really? I've read that the president was an alien reptilian. But then I clicked the box with the "X" on it and the stupidity went away. Don't believe half the things you read.

[SamuraiGuy]

I noticed on the last quote you left out "lightweight --"

yeah so I dont know enough about lightweights to comment, you take a little snippet of what I put and try to make me look like an idiot, you sir are a knob.

"Not flaming you but look at the footage, the ref stopped the fight when Silva fell over from Belfort's punches but he was not even near injured or KO'd."

He just fell over, right everytime he gets punched he just automatically falls over, no your right that wouldnt happen, unless he was hurt, or ko'd .... if the ref hadnt stopped it Tito would just jump on him and beat his brains in, I'm sorry if your another "wandy" nuthugger but every fighter is gonna look at the ref like.. "what I could have taken him" when they get beaten, (unless its ridiculously obvious) they all say "oh no I didnt want that stopped"

"You have never seen some of Wanderlei's first Brazilian matches?"

No i havent seen some of wanderleis brazilian matches, but how many has he had in pride since then, im not sure of the exact number so I will go with alot, hmm you think after fighting for I dont know how many years with one set of rules you would become accustomed to not having to deal with it.

[danfaggella]

emptyness, formt hat comment i can tell your empty on the inside, you shallow ****er. but seirosuly, you are right, a chick like that does wonders, in fiact im going to go find one.

[HtTKar]

I'm trying to find an anger managment group in my area but can't, I've looked on the net and in newspapers but to no avail, it's got to be like an self-help type group for angry people, and I'm not paying someone money for it either and I'd like to remain anyomous if possible any search ideas guys

Doesnt that just piss you off?
I hate it when I cant find anger management groups near me.