sigh......

[Ronin]

Just wondering...I'm 27, a little older and wiser (I hope).

Yeah, heartbreak always hurts the first time.

And the second. And the third. And the fourth...

But after a while, you don't "get used to it", but at least every new indignity begins to seem familiar, and therefore not as bad. You can live through a lot, if you let yourself.

If you're on good terms with your ex, ask her not to mention her boyfriends. That might help. Or stop talking to her for a while. That might help too.

Or kick her new boyfriend's ass. That would REALLY help.

j/k

[Ryu (non-working password]

It's worse than you think. She has one of my Gracie Jiu-jitsu sweatshirts!

Thanks, I've already made it clear to her that I don't want to hear about her escapades....well just not until I find someone and can gloat myself.

I figured you to be around 26-27.
Hopefully I won't be seen here as another "Patterson"!

JK, Patty.

Take care,
and good luck with your own liasons as well. Tonight I grapple with a 300 pounder! Great to have big friends to work with.
see you later.

Ryu

[Jimmy23]

go whoop the hell out of the new guy.Hire a big fat chick to whoop the ex.Violence is the truly the cathartic outlet you need .KILL KILL KILL
sorry man,in a facetious mood.

[Ryu (non-working password]

Jimmy, definitely been there.
No apology needed

Ryu

[Bau13]

Ryu...

From my experience ...ex's are never the people you thought they were..
Its cos when you're with them you're kinda mushy um..."in love" so to speak and you kind of ignore all the imperfections that they have...you only really notice those AFTER the relationship...

I have been through heartbreaks and I feel for you man... But if this girl is talking about her new boyfriend...that could mean:

A) she still really thinks of you as a friend she can talk to

B)She's cold and heartless...

(I'm hoping for your sake she's "A")

If it hurts you to hear this stuff...TELL HER!!....just dont sound like a jealous Psycho! If she truly still values your friendship...she'll understand.

I'm a sensitive guy too ...I think I know how you're feeling...IT SUCKS!! I could go on in more detail but it would probably depress you and every other "sensitive" guy here..

Can only say If she's getting on with her life and being happy....why cant you do the same?

Lotsa girls out there..

Bau13

P.s...ever listen to the Chris Isaak album "forever blue"?
It's an album completely about this girl he broke up with
...helped me get through some hard times..I recomend it!