Okay, how long do you guys intend to train? What’s the scoop on most of you guys? Beginners, competing in sports competitions or just training for the heck or it? I’m asking this because there’s a recurring theme surrounding many martial artists, including myself. Many of us are training off and on, depending on periodical lifestyle changes.
For instance, most of us start off young and we really enjoy the martial arts... We enter tournaments, competitions, etc... Then we get a little older and we’re still training, but we begin to take interest in girls, social gatherings and events... Our training becomes less intense... The pressures of high school either push some of us to train harder or train less. In my case, girls and friends got the better of me.
Then we reach college and almost all training goes out the window... There are too many distractions, not to mention all the women and parties. By junior year, we begin to wind down and maybe begin to train very hard again. Some join professional sports or compete in amateur competition, kickboxing etc..
You graduate from college and find a professional career and enjoy the life for a while, then start training again just for the heck of it. However, you then get married and take some more time off to accommodate yet another lifestyle change.
When marriage finally settles in, you begin to train again but find yourself very rusty. Then, you find out that your first child is on its way... Your martial arts training becomes more or less an exercise regiment to stay in shape, since you realize you’re not doing anything in the field of martial arts.
After the baby comes, you barely have time to train. Your training becomes very simple. Some give up at this point. Others, like myself, devise a simple routine or visit a gym every now and then. This is basically where I’m at right now.
If I have more kids, my training will probably diminish even more, at least until my kids are old enough to train with me. Then I’ll be an old guy just training for the love of training.
For instance, most of us start off young and we really enjoy the martial arts... We enter tournaments, competitions, etc... Then we get a little older and we’re still training, but we begin to take interest in girls, social gatherings and events... Our training becomes less intense... The pressures of high school either push some of us to train harder or train less. In my case, girls and friends got the better of me.
Then we reach college and almost all training goes out the window... There are too many distractions, not to mention all the women and parties. By junior year, we begin to wind down and maybe begin to train very hard again. Some join professional sports or compete in amateur competition, kickboxing etc..
You graduate from college and find a professional career and enjoy the life for a while, then start training again just for the heck of it. However, you then get married and take some more time off to accommodate yet another lifestyle change.
When marriage finally settles in, you begin to train again but find yourself very rusty. Then, you find out that your first child is on its way... Your martial arts training becomes more or less an exercise regiment to stay in shape, since you realize you’re not doing anything in the field of martial arts.
After the baby comes, you barely have time to train. Your training becomes very simple. Some give up at this point. Others, like myself, devise a simple routine or visit a gym every now and then. This is basically where I’m at right now.
If I have more kids, my training will probably diminish even more, at least until my kids are old enough to train with me. Then I’ll be an old guy just training for the love of training.
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