One minute SD...

[Tant01]

Not...

so what your saying is that you u wanna get on top of her?

Don't be silly. Adoration is one thing. At work she's just another farm hand. We joke about her "celebrity" status... TV star, band member and super model

What I'd like is for her to be prepared to defend herself.

If I can share a few minutes each day to instill a bit of skill toward that end then it's time well spent. I have no other motive, I'm happily and faithfully married and THAT'S how I like it.

I would do no less for any other co-worker....

I'm not saying I won't enjoy getting behind her but wrestling isn't high on the list of techniques I have in mind.


Today I told her and showed her how to destroy the small bones of the inner ear with "thunder palm" Clapping loudly to demonstrate the importance of INTENT!! Then the two handed version... also the target under his chin.

Showed her where to cut a mans Bicep muscle to deanimate the forearm and wrist for the thumb. Structural theory is always fun.

More later.

[Garland]

1 minute.
hmmm...
knife. Gross body movements, nothing too fancy or intricate. Simple where to draw, where to put it, and where to cut away to keep the knife in her possession.

Then tell her if she loses the knife, or doesn't deploy it, it may be used against her.

Simple, short, and generally effective, high percentage and gross motor.

If more time....
Unarmed...killing intent, forward drive, improvised weapons, and high percentage techniques, such as eye gouges, fish hooking, ear claps, kino mutai stuff, and how to escape the mount position, escape windpipe chokes, and perhaps some of the more easy to implement (and effective) close range strikes such as thai elbows, thai knees...
maybe some silat trips and throws that tend to be rather effortless. (but do require a great deal of proper positioning to work effectively.)

The top things to focus on, especially for somebody who is only looking for quick self defense, and not on spending any real time to learn it, are just the key concepts and some really simple, high percentage tools.


just my college guess.

[EmptyneSs]

I'm not saying I won't enjoy getting behind her

so i was right?

[Tant01]

Sorry, No! Again.

so i was right?

Can you say "O Goshi"? Get your mind out of the gutter.

[blitz]

Carry a knife and don't tremble when your using it

[Tant01]

I have mentioned the close target long weapon theory to cut the hand if it comes close and thrust toward the pelvic girdle if the threat comes crashing in. She lacks the proper motivation to be a man killer...

But we're working on that.

[EmptyneSs]

Originally Posted by Tant01
I'm not saying I won't enjoy getting behind her

u said, this not me. dont get mad cause is true.

Can you say "O Goshi"? Get your mind out of the gutter.

first off, i will counter your ogoshi with uchi mata. next, just look at the statement u made about wanting to get behind her. you pretty much stated you want to do her doggystyle, and then say my mind is in the gutter.

this just proves even more that the best 1 minute self defense lesson you could give a girl is a one minute talk about how she needs to watch out for guys like you who are scheming on her all the time.

awareness is best option for women sd.

[Tant01]

You got me... My bad.

The very fact that I got defensive about it is the biggest clue.
I am such a man.


She is well aware of the depth of my deprivation...


That's really not the focus of this thread...








Really.

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Some theory(awareness):

1) The Victim; The Persecutor and The Rescuer. (AKA The POOR-ME Syndrome.)

It must be understood, in order not to become a victim, that other people only Attack(persecute) other people because they themselve's are a Victim(of some situation) and hate that feeling so much, they feel the need to give it to someone else. They want someone else to be the victim; THEY ARE SICK OF IT.

Someone who is a Victim(a nasty feeling), persecute's(complain's) in order to be rescued.{E.G."Yeh: THE BOSS IS NASTY ISN'T HE!!"}. They feel they need rescuing, because they feel they have been victimised.

The mild version of this theory is when persecution involve's only verbal abuse. When people feel really Victimised- WATCH OUT!

2) It's all about control. If you can control Yourself and the distance in-between...then you can control your opponent.

>> 1) or 2) : Whichever can be delivered in one minute...they amount to the same thing. Accepting that the world has crazed drug addict's in it!! While you may feel for them...they just want to hurt someone to take away their own pain and forget that they were ever mistreated themselve's.

[Garland]

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"It must be understood, in order not to become a victim, that other people only Attack(persecute) other people because they themselve's are a Victim(of some situation) and hate that feeling so much, they feel the need to give it to someone else. They want someone else to be the victim; THEY ARE SICK OF IT."

What type of bullshit psychology course did you learn that in. That argument is so fallable...I'll let you take it apart..It'll be good for you.

people ONLY attack because they want others to feel the same way? That's a little far-fetched.
There are innumerable reasons to attack or harm, or be a general riesty shit and some of them are ultimately incomprehensible.
Some of the reasons are very simple...as most people, you see, are simple-tons (i.e. dumbshits) anyway. People are stupid...and the reasons for an unprovoked assault or otherwise violent or otherwise encrouching move could be something entirely straightforward and simple.

[bbbb]

I'm listening...

[QUOTE=Garland]

"It must be understood, in order not to become a victim, that other people only Attack(persecute) other people because they themselve's are a Victim(of some situation) and hate that feeling so much, they feel the need to give it to someone else. They want someone else to be the victim; THEY ARE SICK OF IT."

What type of bullshit psychology course did you learn that in. That argument is so fallable...I'll let you take it apart..It'll be good for you.

people ONLY attack because they want others to feel the same way? That's a little far-fetched.
There are innumerable reasons to attack or harm, or be a general riesty shit and some of them are ultimately incomprehensible.
Some of the reasons are very simple...as most people, you see, are simple-tons (i.e. dumbshits) anyway. People are stupid...and the reasons for an unprovoked assault or otherwise violent or otherwise encrouching move could be something entirely straightforward and simple.

Such as what!!? What would be the most simple explanation, other than the feeling of being a victim in their own right...it's important that we find the truth here, for the benefit of all the lady's. I hope you didn't think I actually meant "that people Attack because they want other people to ATTACK..that was not said...I said that people only Attack because thEy want other people to feel like THE VICTIM- BECAUSE THEY ARE SICK OF BEING THE VICTIM...LITERALLY SICK...AS IN, MENTALLY/PSYCHOLOGICALLY, SICK".

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p.s.

Yes, I am trying to take it apart...what is the problem with that explanation. I am trying to put what I was taught into my own word's.(Well, mostly their's-Malcolm Sue's- but cannot remember verbatim, so of course must interpret the lesson in my own word's.).

I hope it help's and does not equal a Dangerous/Wrong Idea.

[bbbb]

.. . ....

This was called..."raising your conciousness".

So that (y)our action's become more comprehensible etc....

This was taught to us so that we may control (y)ourselve's better- control the distance in between and ultimately control all oppnent's.

Thus leading to WORLD PEACE.

[bbbb]

What give's..

...a person the right to Attack any other person?



"All posession is the theft" ("Rick"__The Young One's).

[Garland]

nothing gives anyone the "right" to do anything of the nature you described, however the more common thought process probably goes like this..."there's some bitch with a fat roll of cash...lets take it."
The perpetrators of any following offense are not victims of anything. Whether or not they had ever been victims of any theft or anything is completely irrelevant.

People can and do hurt, maim, rape, pillage, plunder...for a variety of reasons, none of which have to necessarily do with them being victims of crime or injustice a priori. Example...some rich football player decides to beat and rape a girl...is he a victim? Has he been raped, and is that somewhere in his subconcious forcing him to committ the act? Has he been pressured too hard, and feels hurt, so he rapes her for a power trip? These are somewhat plausible explainations, but perhaps...maybe...I'm guessing he just wanted to get his rocks off, or finds that shit amusing (there ARE people out there like that), and is a generally dispicable piece of shit, period. Maybe he has his friends run a train after. Are they victims? ****!no.

There are people in this world who have immense power and privelge, and yet they will victimize and exploit others, murder and rape. There are others that have been victims that don't engage in anything of that sort. People are inclined to do whatever they are by things that are essentially unknown. You don't need to ever be a victim, or feel insecure, to be a monster...some people just are.

No need to get your panties in a wad over this type of thing. You seem to be upset because I question your shit...don't, the theory isn't a reflection on you, but the way that you cling to it suggests no ability to adapt on your part...which means you know exactly...nothing. You're inability to lend an ear to an alternative explaination, or find fault in your own is a sure sign of ignorance. I have to ask...are you a Bible thumper? Please tell me that we didn't evolve from primates...and are soley created by God the way we are...

cuz that's the type of logic your using...
hate to point it out, really...
you take what others tell you at face value, and use them as a dogma...this is what I was told, and so it is.

World peace?...drop the doobie, bro...