Honestly to all women about self defense..

[terry]

When there are thousands of inexperienced "lurkers" who read this information and may use it to defend themselves, you must understand the responsibility of giving them simple and effective tactics to start.

I agree with this statement. You both know a lot more about WSD than I do. But is it possible to use both of your knowledge in a constructive manner such that we don't continue down the current rathole of questioning each other's abilities?

[RBFC]

Mrs. J,

1. I was not the moderator at SDF when you were banned.

2. "Justus"?? I find it hard to believe that someone who purports to have such advanced knowledge spells like this.....

3. You answered "yes" to a question which actually required an answer....

4. You're still focused on training/treating individuals after the attack. As I stated before, prevention (just as in medicine) is a far more powerful tool than post-event treatment and counseling.

5. One of the two links you provided to your site doesn't work. The other link places me on a page describing one of your "missions". Nowhere, in any of your writings, do you say "how" you teach a class. Nowhere in any of your writings here do you describe an actual technique, etc. which you pass on to students.

This is the crux of my point. If all you do is refer readers here to your pre-written website, why write pages of talk which don't GIVE them anything?

As I stated before, I have requested that Mr. Mousel remove my membership here. The last interaction I had on this forum was from a 17 yr. old girl who wanted to take advanced-concept adrenal stress padded assailant drills and change them to suit her level of knowledge. It seems that there are not any readers with serious questions about Women's SD. The poster "Kingston"'s contributions to this thread are like a little kid watching a boxing match, without positive value.

The statistically-driven presentation of Women's SD issues serves to sugar-coat the grim reality of being in a violent interpersonal confrontation. This information is of academic interest, but does not apply to the individual situation, where statistics become meaningless. Since Mrs. J predictably answered "yes" to my questions, she apparently has all the knowledge this forum will ever need. I'd like to see her actually explain something without referring to her pre-prepared website, but oh, well.......

Thank you for the opportunity to present my views. This will be my last post.

Lee

[Biker]

Originally posted by terry
[B]

I agree with this statement. You both know a lot more about WSD than I do. But is it possible to use both of your knowledge in a constructive manner such that we don't continue down the current rathole of questioning each other's abilities?

Wouldn't that be nice? But it'll never happen. People don't like to budge on their views.

[Ms. J]

exlorations

Gentlemen, this is just a quick note before i leave for another 10-hour stretch.

First and foremost as i said i am sorry about the reply’s back and forth, i am also sorry because i did not realize this discussion would turn as it did. This is mostly due to the fact that i was honestly asking questions based on my not having enough information to understand what Mr. lee was stating and introducing into the string. Its not about me changing my views because well I never got to even decide what my views were because I did not have enough information and why I asked.

I honestly had no bad intent when asking the questions i did, and even when it turned out and was apparent that other was going on, and Mr. lee had more issues with me then i realized, i still had no bad intent.

When i am asked questions i answer them as well as i can, also aim dyslexic and i have worked hard to present clean text on the web site. So whenever someone asks me for information that i have typed up and worked for days already i sort of send them there to make it easer for others to stand my written form without having to spend hours on it frist. as far as pages not loading, well they loaded before I put them on the post, also all techniques are listed for each program that we teach on line.

I probably should not be even responding again and the only reason I did the last time was I had been asked direct questions because no matter what I do at this point Its not going to be the best thing. Either or doomed if I don’t doomed if I do…
As to the last response, I am not going to go there again on the board if anyone wants to ask in private email fine, but I am really not trying to cause all sorts of anger nor grief to this board, seems though I have a few people in the world that don’t like me nor my stance in some areas.

All I thought we were doing was exploring the issues next thing I knew it was an attack, game and a contest for others personal goals.

Ms. J bows deeply

[Biker]

No anger and grief here on this end. My post wasn't directed at you, just a generalization.

It's too bad that in order to be taken seriously by some people everything must be typed correctly, syntax correct, etc.

[AsianGrrl]

"point blank.. no bitch in her right mind can take my punch.. that's a fact.. if i started robbin .. no girl would take it.. not to the jaw or chin.. hell no.. "

CrazyJoe,
just by referring to a woman as a bitch knocks you way way down on the respect ladder. As for taking your punch, your awfully cocky to make that assumption. Start robbin, cuz if you try and rob me i'm gonna put a cap in your ass and you i won't have to take your punch. Don't refer to women as bitches you dick. Your post really pissed me off. I'm a girl, but i've kicked plenty of male ass to know that if your a guy it's easy to assume a girl is weaker than you. Whatever. I've seen plenty of wussy guys in my dojo and i ate them for lunch. Don't talk to me about taking punches, i've taken a punch and even a stick to the face. Your full of it. Grow up.