Your Opinions On Age Differences in Relationships...

[osopardo]

OMG IPON!! You were a bouncer for NAMBLA?!? And you almost quit?!? Dude, how bad did you need the money?


"Lord, I was born a NAMBLA man...
Tryin' to get young boys nekkid if I can...
I like to touch their little parts, the parts that dont get tanned,
'Cause I was born a NAMBLA man..."

-with apologies to the Allman Brothers

and IPON, I'm just razzin' you

[Tap4Me]

What is NAMBLA?

And battery, be very warry, you wouldnt want to be another statistic

Everyone here has hit it right on target. That 'relationship' has the signs of heading down all the wrong paths.

[osopardo]

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[osopardo]

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[osopardo]

What is NAMBLA?

I believe that the acronym stands for North American Man Boy Love Association.

This particular group of miscreants believe that it should be legal for adults to pursue romantic/sexual relationships, specifically homosexual relationships, with children. To them being a minor is just an intrusive, archaic technicality.
Their main focus in promoting their agenda is that it is the minors who are being victimized and denied the benefits of such experiences.

How 'bout it? Any of you underage forum members feel like you're missing out on something good?

[Tap4Me]

They are some messed up freaks, I can't refer to them as people!!

[Lizard]

The thing with the internet is that people are much more open, less inhibited. This is often a good thing, it allows people to make lots friends. However the drawback is that people often become more than friends.

Internet contacts may love you, you may love them. But its a bad idea, you dont meet up with these people, firstly its far too much hard work considering you dont actualy know what theyre like in real life, secondly you cant trust them and could end up having something very bad happen to you. Luckily you will probably be bored with this guy soon and you can both find real people to have relationships with.

Sigh... if I had a unit of currency for every internet contact to have fancied me... i would have many units of currency. (for some reason 12 - 14 year old girls seem to love me )

[osopardo]

(for some reason 12 - 14 year old girls seem to love me )

LOL "...when I wanna impress a girl I jus' whip out my Lizard..."

[Jeremy Lobdell]

Be careful. People can sound very convincing. All those people who have been taken in in the past haven't all been idiots. They have been duped by con men.

If he's 34 and interested in a 16 year old there is something not rigt, whether his "intentions" are honourable or not.

You're absolutely right, Thai Bri. I have found that as I get older (30), I am attracted to women that are around my own age. I couldn't even imagine being attracted to someone that is almost half my age. Generally guys that are insecure think that someone younger and more inexperienced in life won't be so quick to pick up on their glaring faults. This is best case senario. The worst case being they are looking for someone that's easy to manipulate and control, usually leading to mental and physical abuse.

[EmptyneSs]

when i was in middle school, all the girls wanted the junior high guys. when i was in junior high, the girls wanted the older, cooler highschool guys.when i was in in highschool, all the highschool girls wanted to be with 19, 20 year old college guys. now that im 21 and in college, all the girls want older, mature men(sugar daddies) that are like 35+ that have lots of money. were do us normal, regular guys just trying to make it through life and be good people fit in ?

[Miss_Kitty]

when i was in middle school, all the girls wanted the junior high guys. when i was in junior high, the girls wanted the older, cooler highschool guys.when i was in in highschool, all the highschool girls wanted to be with 19, 20 year old college guys. now that im 21 and in college, all the girls want older, mature men(sugar daddies) that are like 35+ that have lots of money. were do us normal, regular guys just trying to make it through life and be good people fit in ?

Aaaw you fit in somewhere I'm sure

It really depends if you love the person then age should not be a problem provided that the younger in the relationship is mature enough to make proper decisions etc...

[Tom Yum]

when i was in middle school, all the girls wanted the junior high guys. when i was in junior high, the girls wanted the older, cooler highschool guys.when i was in in highschool, all the highschool girls wanted to be with 19, 20 year old college guys. now that im 21 and in college, all the girls want older, mature men(sugar daddies) that are like 35+ that have lots of money. were do us normal, regular guys just trying to make it through life and be good people fit in ?

You answered your own question somewhere in there....

Sadly, you don't fit in (atleast not for a while). Women your age are stopped dead in their tracks by older guys with money or bad boys (aka."I can change him, but boy is he hot!") and you being the average guy just trying to do well are in dating limbo.

You've got to find your niche. Something that differentiates you, that you can do, but others can't...

Good luck!

[osopardo]

...now that im 21 and in college,...were do us normal, regular guys ...fit in ?

read your own post, the answer is high school girls

[osopardo]

...You've got to find your niche. Something that differentiates you, that you can do, but others can't...

Ugly old guy with no money or personality, sitting in a booth at the local tavern, surrounded by beautiful girls flirting with him and buying him drinks.

Every now and then he licks his own eyebrows...

[EmptyneSs]

read your own post, the answer is high school girls

most high school chicks are stupid. and if not that, they are underage and have curfews n shit.