do chicks dig martial artists?

[Tom Yum]

LOL! Good stuff

I've never done any of the above things - I don't hit on the chicks in MA classes because I'm there to train. If invited to hang out outside of class, I might think about it.

[treelizard]

Thanks! All true stories.

[Tant01]

Lizard lips

Really annoying things guys do in MMA/grappling classes (from a woman's perspective). Being aware of these may or may not help you in your quest to date a chick who likes martial artists, but it certainly won't hurt.

Things that might potentially annoy some chicks in your MMA/grappling class:

1. constant non-sequiter pillow talk about wearing g-strings backwards, etc. uhh... we guess it's good that you feel comfortable being the dogs you are around us. heh heh. but we're not gonna call...

2. not wanting to roll with girls, but not having the balls to say it flat out, and instead making up lame excuses about taking breaks or being injured or not being into rolling (as if the ladies you don't want to train with won't notice seconds later that you're rolling with someone else)

3. stopping in the middle of a roll when you're getting or are about to get submitted to do some "coaching"--f'in copout!!

4. doing "coaching" at any time during class when it's your first day. hello?

5. so you're a rock star cagefighter and we're rolling and you are awesome and everything's cool and your training partners are all amazed by how nice you are to not drop all 210 lbs on us and how great of a training partner you are, with great skill and technique and super perceptive, and then you ruin it all by asking each and every girl you train with if they're married, in the middle of the roll and in front of all your buddies, not to mention the other chicks you just used that line on. then you proceed by interrupting their questions on technique with "how old are you? you don't look a day past sixteen. tee hee hee hee hee." you were close, so close!

6. ending every sentence with "woman." example: after being told that your mouthguard may have seen better days, responding with "that's because i use the damn thing, woman." uh...

7. yes, i put on my t-shirt over my rashguard because you're staring at me, but that doesn't mean you need to try to rip it off. t-shirt does not equal gi. loser.

8. "but you almost tapped out, right? i almost got you right? do you feel this? doesn't that hurt? you almost tapped last time too, right? right? right? right?"

9. screaming over the music. hello get a hint they probably put it on to get you to shut up.

10. benching more than you can bench before or after class with loud grunting noises and the worst form imaginable. or maybe that's tied with never washing your clothes...

Okay, had to get that off my chest. I'm done now.

When the tree speaks do men actually listen?

That was awesome girl. Thanks for the enlightening words.

"You must spread some reputation around before giving it to Tree Lizard again"

Thats an awesome post

[treelizard]

Really annoying things guys do in MMA/grappling classes (from a woman's perspective). Being aware of these may or may not help you in your quest to date a chick who likes martial artists, but it certainly won't hurt.

Things that might potentially annoy some chicks in your MMA/grappling class:

1. constant non-sequiter pillow talk about wearing g-strings backwards, etc. uhh... we guess it's good that you feel comfortable being the dogs you are around us. heh heh. but we're not gonna call...

2. not wanting to roll with girls, but not having the balls to say it flat out, and instead making up lame excuses about taking breaks or being injured or not being into rolling (as if the ladies you don't want to train with won't notice seconds later that you're rolling with someone else)

3. stopping in the middle of a roll when you're getting or are about to get submitted to do some "coaching"--f'in copout!!

4. doing "coaching" at any time during class when it's your first day. hello?

5. so you're a rock star cagefighter and we're rolling and you are awesome and everything's cool and your training partners are all amazed by how nice you are to not drop all 210 lbs on us and how great of a training partner you are, with great skill and technique and super perceptive, and then you ruin it all by asking each and every girl you train with if they're married, in the middle of the roll and in front of all your buddies, not to mention the other chicks you just used that line on. then you proceed by interrupting their questions on technique with "how old are you? you don't look a day past sixteen. tee hee hee hee hee." you were close, so close!

6. ending every sentence with "woman." example: after being told that your mouthguard may have seen better days, responding with "that's because i use the damn thing, woman." uh...

7. yes, i put on my t-shirt over my rashguard because you're staring at me, but that doesn't mean you need to try to rip it off. t-shirt does not equal gi. loser.

8. "but you almost tapped out, right? i almost got you right? do you feel this? doesn't that hurt? you almost tapped last time too, right? right? right? right?"

9. screaming over the music. hello get a hint they probably put it on to get you to shut up.

10. benching more than you can bench before or after class with loud grunting noises and the worst form imaginable. or maybe that's tied with never washing your clothes...

Okay, had to get that off my chest. I'm done now.

[Tom Yum]

Girls are okay, just don't make them your whole world like a lot idiots do.

Remember that falvor flav reality dating show lol

[GQchris]

Girls are okay, just don't make them your whole world like a lot idiots do.

[bodhisattva]

im 21 man. im not sad or anything, its just that relationships are so hard and always end in a bad way. men and women were made to be with eachother, but sadly there is so much rediculous bs that gets in the way.

To start with - you don't really know men and women are "meant to be with each other" you just know that we fit together in a physical way.

Relationships only end in a "bad way" if you cling to them or try to hold on to them after they have ceased to be productive or useful to you.

They also only end in a "bad way" if you think they are supposed to just go on forever.

Bro, they don't.

And typically when they DO last forever, they shouldn't...

Sink your feet in the granite of yourself - develop your career - develop your fight game - work on your fitness ... and women will COME OF THEIR OWN.

However, if you focus totally on women and on your loneliness and on emptiness - then women will be a struggle, life will be a struggle, and you will always be negotiating from weakness.

Just some thoughts.

[GQchris]

very true, if a girl is into you only because of what you have, or what you do as in hobbies or job, whats going to happen when you don't have those things, she could take a hike.

[bodhisattva]

i was wondering if chicks dig guys who are martial artists. i know some do, but i dont know what females in general think about martial artists.

A girl isn't going to look at anyone and say "he's a martial artist and I like martial artists so I like him."

The way to meet girls, Emptyness is to first realize there isn't anything wrong with you, and then to approach them and speak to them - if you can make them laugh - all the better.

And if you experience some harsh rejection now and then - don't sweat it. Return to step 1.

Never attach anything to your image to pick up girls or feel better about yourself.

Feel free to stand "naked" and empty and face the world from that standpoint - not from the standpoint of an image. It will be easier, it will make more sense, and you'll meet and impress a lot more babes.

[Ahsen]

Heres another Great Quetsion:



DO MA ladies dig guys with no MA at all

so whats the ans .......................

[Ahsen]

Heres another Great Quetsion:

Do MA chicks dig guys who have no MA at all ?


let me reprase that

DO MA ladies dig guys with no MA at all

[Tom Yum]

Are you writing songs for Neil Diamond these days?

LOL

No - but I see your point, jubs!

[jubaji]

Much appreciated!

[blitz]

You must spread some reputation around before giving it to jubaji again.
Man, I've been away from this site for a long time and you still crack me up And I'd like to add that jubaji's a pimp.