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Originally posted by gregimotis
For example, if some dude can do the deed 10 times a day even though he aint starvation crazy, I would guess that's high.
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What do you define as high?
For example, if some dude can do the deed 10 times a day even though he aint starvation crazy, I would guess that's high. -
I have a plan for Polegirl. She needs a boyfriend who will arrive at her house in the morning as she wakes up and help her out. She needs a boyfriend who can meet her during her lunch break and help her out. She needs a guy for the early evenings up until dinner. And she needs another one for after dinner until the morning guy arrives.Comment
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Pole girl needs a new hobby. Something that will tire her out so that she will appear to have a less frequent but still very healthy drive.
I'd recommend the triathalon. Or some event that will channel your drive and keep ya healthy.Comment
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Hobbies include - karate, pole dancing, exotic dancing, BJJ (not all the time), playing in musicals (trombone) and I go to the gym three mornings a week. I also work full time (and commute three hours a day to and from work). I don't know how I can fit anymore hobbies in!!!!! And I have found that physical exercise has increased my drive, not decreased it. When I was really unhealthy and did not have any hobbies then I did not want sex that much (you know once every couple of days was enough), but since getting fit I want it more and more!!! And no I am not taking steriods! So the whole idea of me doing more physically I don't think would work too well, in fact I think it would have the opposite impact.Originally posted by Tom YumComment
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I volunteer. I'll start applying for my visaOriginally posted by cakegirl
LOL
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Replace two of those hobbies with training for the triathalon. Triathaletes need mega stamina, more than just general fitness.Originally posted by polegirlComment
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Which routine? The one to "I'm a Slave for you" or "Can't hold us down" or "Naughty Girl"......Originally posted by HandtoHandComment
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I'm starting to understand the problem....Originally posted by polegirl
-HikageComment
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Hahaha actually, there were a few of us doing those routines, and now that you mention it, we all have had similar problems.
OMG Polegirl has suddenly realised it is the routine that is the problem, not her sex drive.Comment
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See this is the bit I don't get. I do what I, as a woman, would think a guy would think were really cool hobbies (not that I do it because I think guys would like it but because I enjoy it). I do not get paid for it, I do it for my own pleasure. But the funny part is that some guys think if you do exotic dancing and pole dancing then you must be a slut. Is the problem that I am a sexual person and I am not afraid to admit it? Is it intimidating? Or do guys make the assumption that if you are sexual then you are obviously a slut. Seriously I am trying to understand it but am having issues. So Hikage if you can (and any of you other guys) if you can explain it to me I would really appreciate it.Originally posted by Hikage
Oh and I don't want to do triathalons. I love my hobbies and honestly pole dancing is so hard, try pulling yourself up onto a pole from standing position (and in 6 inch heels) and then wrapping your legs around it, hold onto the pole by only your feet and legs, swing your body around you face the pole and then slide down (and look good in the process). It is really difficult, I come out of my pole dancing class soaking wet (gee that is a great image!!!! ).
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It depends mostly on the mindset of the individual. Some guys might think that, others might think "Hey, since she's so free about it, maybe I can get lucky!", then there's the ones of my mindset who basically say hey, that's cool that they admit that and know it's part of their personality. My girlfriend is very much like that, she's open about what she likes and her preferences, needs, etc. Some people today are just still really close-minded and see sex as a taboo topic of discussion in some societies.Originally posted by polegirl
Sharee has a pole too that she often uses for pole dancing, as she's a dance choreographer so she likes to keep in shape. It's a tough workout (one I'd never be caught dead doingI love my hobbies and honestly pole dancing is so hard,
), so you're not the only one. It's not a common thing but it's not extremely rare either.
You're not the only ones who fret about this too, everybody does. Sex is like oxygen: you take it for granted until you don't have enough and are fiending for it.
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Guys prolly think ur a slut if you want sex all the time, not necessarily a bad thing that you want sex all the time, they may see it as bad though, maybe they dont want someone that they cant satisfy all the time, or maybe their scared of getting aids or cauliflower dick from a potential slut. They may think ur cheating on them, going to cheat on them, or have some wierd disease from before if you come across as a sex crazed maniac. Now im not saying any of the former is true, people could think that though.
(Now to keep up my seemingly uninterruptible run of moronic posts, I bring you the dumb part)
If you really need sex that much, learn to love your fingers haha, you can use em for more then knife hand chops or punches you know (dont know if knife hand chops actually use fingers, i choke people I dont poke people).Comment
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Though I love sex I can (and have gone) without it. Though I love sex I do not have sex with just anyone. I appreciate your honesty, it is amazing what people think.Originally posted by SamuraiGuyComment
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Thanks for that, I thought that may be the case but sometimes it helps to get other people's opinions. Your girlfriend sounds really cool.Originally posted by koto_ryuComment
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Polegirl,
Thank you for understanding the seriousness of my comment and not taking offense, as none was meant. Perhaps I can help you to get inside the head of the male, as I have spent some time studying (however little) male sexuality.
First and foremost, please understand that I have a tendency to speak plainly, and I urge you to continue to appreciate what I say for what it is, and not take offense.
When you announce yourself as someone who pole dances for fun, you announce yourself as most men are going to regard as someone who is very sensual and perhaps who does not self-respect. Many who poledance (or atleast as percieved by the male mind) do so for attention, not soley for the joy of it, as is your case.
Therefore, you are going to encounter two types of men. The first are those who are going to hoot and howl over you. Ref: Those on here who have not been able to resist asking you to describe your routine in detail. Often this type of male will lust after someone such as yourself, but one he or she has you, no longer has need of you, because he got what he wanted. Perhaps he'll show back up once in a while for another go, but is not interested in a longer term relationship.
The second type of person you identified yourself. Those who will be intimidated and see you as above them, sensually and will not approach you, but will watch from a distance. These are the ones who are more likely to settle down, but their labido will be less. Biologically speaking, after orgasm, it takes the body 72 hours until the body has produced a full regimen of semen. After these 72 hours, the male feels "pressured" to let off steam again. However, once a relationship has been established, often the males will increase in their labido. Psychologists often urge men who are seeking to increase their sex drive to masturbate. So, staying in the saddle and putting up with their shyness is your best bet. Give them time, don't pressure.
Hope this helps, sorry it's short, but I gotta run.
-HikageComment
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