Questions about the ladies...

[osopardo]

Youth is wasted on the young!

You've been interested in this girl for over four years and you still haven't declared your feelings! What are you some kinda moron?!?

What are you afraid of? The way it's gonna feel when she rejects you? How do you think it's gonna feel when she gets tired of waiting for you and takes up with another guy?

How's it gonna feel when she introduces you to her new boyfriend and says, "He's an old friend, we've known each other for years!" then walks away on his arm, his hand possesively wrapped around her waist, dopping slowly to her butt and she giggles "Stop that! Oh you're horrible!" and you stand there watching them blissfully walking away, your eyes burning, your chest aching, wishing she would turn and run to you, wishing you had had the courage to have said or done something, but now it's too late.

You've wasted more than four years of each other's life when you could have been together, you coward! Go to her! Tell her how you feel! Ask her to forgive your cowardice! Ask her to take a gamble on you! Promise her your soul! Tell her you're burning for her! Do it right now, before it's too late!




Honestly, these youngsters! I should keep a closer watch on these forums, to intervene whenever these situations come up!

[Blue Wave Gym]

I gotta respond to this one

I don't know about you guys but I've never had the problem of wasting time asking a girl out no matter what age I was, I see something I go for it, by some too short tapes dude, women usually ask me out though but lately I'm going for mine like 24/7 and working the room, I'm looking for THE one, btw it's easy to fighure out if they are into you FLIRT WITH HER IF SHE'S INTERASTED YOU'LL KNOW if not, oh well as garland said F**** her any how/ it's her loss

[Tant01]

Try Tanka


Ladies love a poet...

[Blue Wave Gym]

hey gato

I was thinking about your situation and no diss here but I hope your in jr. high or high school because if you are an adult man and you have waited 4 years to ask a chick out/figure out if she likes you then I'm a bit concearned about you. YOU said yourself she flirted with you so that's your answer. I'll use myself as an example when it comes to having game in the ring I got more game then milton bradley and parker brothers and shorty the pimp combined but when it comes to having game via picking up women, on a scale of 1-10 I'm like a negative 12, in spite of this they ask me out and I ask them out,full frontal assualt latley. When I used to work at a club me and the other bouncers would have a contest to see who could pick up the most women at one time(in between breaking up fights) we would have to move around in the crowd alot so it only made sense. My god man I have to like restrain my self on a daily basis from asking out more women than I do, so here's what you do next time she flirts with you>>>> ask her WOULD YOU LIKE TO GO OUT SOMETIME, WHAT ARE YOU DOING THIS WEEKEND ECT. Here's how I learned how to ask women out(just my experience here) just say the same type of stuff they say to you when they ask you out and you say no or give em' the brush off(assuming a chick has asked you out before) be nice about it though, in any event, good luck and when in doubt ask them out. Learn from this experience and never waste time again.There's 2 types of women, the ones you meet wherever and you hook up instantly like a chemistry thing and ones you know from wherever and you have to talk to them/so they get to know you and they like "something" about you then you hook up. Life is too dam short to waste time.

[GQchris]

every shot not taken is a 100 percent miss
-Wayne Gretzky

[95 Mystic TA]

Most of you have more experience in this than I do so here goes....

I've been attracted to (maybe obsessed with is the proper term here) this girl ever since I met her (over four and a half years now). She doens't know for certain - maybe she suspects - we have caught each other stealing glances at each other several times. We aren't very close, but we've had a cordial friendship since we met. But sometimes she gets all moody. She snapped at me once last year when I asked her how she was, so I avoided her, and then about two hours later after class she was smiling at me again. What gives?

About a year ago, she seemed to be a very close friend. Two weeks ago she seemed like a good friend. And before that she was like a stranger who didn't care whether or not I existed (she probably also felt the same about me, because I was giving her a lot of space after she ignored me when I greeted her twice). And further before that in February she flirted with me. Recently, she's been a little distant again. So could she be telling me to stay away, or is she playing hard-to-get? A part of me wants to up the relationship from a platonic one to a romantic one, but another part of me doesn't want to risk losing her as a friend.

All my family and close friends tell me to let her know how I feel, or at least ask her if she's got a "special someone". Two of them also told me to make the opportunity and not wait for it because I've already waited too long, she might get someone else if she doesn't have one already. According to my brother, "You're waiting - maybe she's waiting too - there's no force - nothing's happening".

However, there's a chance that if she has no interest, she just might stop talking to me for good. Then again, maybe she's not saying anything because she may think I have no interest. To the ladies on these forums, you have more insight on these things. Should I have a little more patience and hold out for her a little longer and wait for her to say something, or should I take the initiative and let her know how feel?

First, forget what the **** Garland was saying. It's the internet and the ability to be a face behind a screen can be a good deal. It's been 4.5 years and you still have contact with her so obviously she doesn't not want your company. There is your start.

Ever thought that maybe she could be a little interested in you but because you haven't made the move yet, maybe you aren't interested in her, or at least not enough to sill the deal.