best way to have game/not get played

[Blue Wave Gym]

what's the best way to be?

[GQchris]

re:

The best way to be is confident. Don't look for approval from chics, but you don't have to be an A-hole. Be very direct with chics, ask them out straight up, don't say things like "wanna hang out".

Be assertive, have plans, have backup plans, be sexy, flirty, witty, funny, smart, keep your woman excited and don't get in a routine. Yes, it may seem like a tall order, but nobody ever said being a true Playa was easy. After all, pimping ain't easy.

Have a life, have your own hobbies, and even when you're with a woman, keep building a great life for yourself. Basically have the attitude that you're the catch and not the other way around. When you truly believe this the ladies will come.

[Tom Yum]

Be assertive, have plans, have backup plans, be sexy, flirty, witty, funny, smart, keep your woman excited and don't get in a routine. Yes, it may seem like a tall order, but nobody ever said being a true Playa was easy. After all, pimping ain't easy..

yeah, but you slow down eventually, then something else has to happen....

Have a life, have your own hobbies, and even when you're with a woman, keep building a great life for yourself. Basically have the attitude that you're the catch and not the other way around. When you truly believe this the ladies will come.

True.

The only risk you run is of the girl thinking you're cocky if she's running the same game, then you're butting heads.

[Ryan G]

WOW... pimping... and.... martial arts...... WOW

[Ryan G]

please, tell me this...

case 1:
i work at a fish n chips shop 24/7...... there's this really cute girl that comes in all the time, should i ask her out or dont even bother? cause i have a piece of shit job? because i do, and its not cool to date ppl that work at a convenience store all f**ing day long then cooks fish and burgers in between...?
i need answers, please tell me pimps... please tell me!

[EmptyneSs]

case 1:
i work at a fish n chips shop 24/7...... there's this really cute girl that comes in all the time, should i ask her out or dont even bother? cause i have a piece of shit job? because i do, and its not cool to date ppl that work at a convenience store all f**ing day long then cooks fish and burgers in between...?
i need answers, please tell me pimps... please tell me!

well u got nothing to lose, so go ahead and do it. having a nice gf to hang out with after u get off work will make your job easier to get through and u will have something to look foreward to. its better than working all day and night and having absolutely nothing whatsoever to look foreward to when u finally get off.

i work in a lame job too and we have to wear stupid uniforms and i never thought chicks would be down with us, but surprisngly some of us at work have gotten girls numbers while at work.

[Ryan G]

u r totally right, its riskfree for me.
but all men would prepare for the worst that could happen, so in case if she says no.... i will scratch my head and say "so yeaaa... u know.... i drank milk this morning..."

[GQchris]

be yourself

[Tom Yum]

Good advice.

In addition to being yourself, I'd also say get to know yourself. Try to develop an understanding of human behavior and what drives people's decisions.

After a while, everything makes sense.

Women who shouldn't be in your life will eventually part. Women whom you should have kept leave big shoes for others to fill. A woman who should be in your life will stay .

[GQchris]

my views about dating and love have matured... I've entered a new milestone in my life and I prefer more mature women..

[Jace]

How to act really depends on what you want.

If you are looking for a relationship, you are going to need to have a completly different outlook than if you are just trying to get some.

I'm not saying either option is better or worse, but I think we might need some more information about the situation.