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Ok say you're in a relationship with a woman either a person to person or a long distance one via internet and you're offically boyfriend and girlfriend is it ok to flirt/holla at other women/date other women on the net, like myspace. I don't think this is cheating because it's not in person but I'll admit that if a woman I was exclusive with did it I'd be pissed. I know it's a double standard but since men are visual creatures I don't see anything wrong with them flirting with/hollaing/internet dating or getting to know other chicks.Then again on some level I guess i would feel guilty for doing so btw this is just a hypothetical situation. If i was exclusive with someone (fingers crossed right now) I would only talk to her the other fun would be out the window.
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11Yes it's cheating63.64%7No it's not in person so it doesn't count0.00%0You're a bastard isn't one woman enough for you!!!9.09%1Just don't be excluisive with a woman then just date around9.09%1Just bar hook ups are the way to go for you0.00%0You have a major caracter defect to even think of such a thing0.00%0From you're thinking you sound like you're just not ready to settle down yet0.00%0don't worry this is a normal question for all guys0.00%0You should be so lucky to have a woman put up with your ass and want to be exclusive18.18%2join a monistary0.00%0 -
if i was in a relationship, i doubt id be spending much time on the comp at all. -
It's not cheating...but it leads to mistrust and it's bad form. DON'T GO THERE. I recently got into some, God fucking help me, myspace drama with my girlfriend because she keeps getting out of the blue comments from single lesbians...who she's been adding...which seems fishy to me...etc.
Basicly, she'll get caught up in some sort of bad cognitive loop, and she'll be convinced your meeting up with one of these chicks, or that you are looking for a contingency plan. If I were you, I would seriously try to do some damage control before the shit gets out of hand.
Put pictures of you two up, together. It's hokey, but it'll help reinstate that you are in a relationship with her, and that you are happy with her and proud enough about it to show her off still. It's a good move.
**** the technology age.Comment
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If it's a long distance relationship, and will be for over 6 months... make it an open one, but lay down some ground rules first. This way you won't freak too much when you find out she hit it with someone...because that option is available to you too. Now if she sucks someone elses dick...drive across state lines to put that fool who she did that shit with in a body bag. Something like that.
If she starts "seeing" somebody seriously or dating some fool...at which point, break that shit off, and move on to other (better) things, because the bitch wasn't right for you anyway.Comment
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hey well, either way, your probobly not gonna be satisfied with anything you end up with cause people just want what they cant have.Comment
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Thanks for the advice, you are too funny Garland you need your own radio showOriginally posted by Garland View PostComment
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wow talk about a synic (I'm not trying to be insulting here but) with a name like that have you ever done any gay porn???Originally posted by DickHardman View PostComment
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matters of the heart
blue my man i will try and keep this as simple as possible 4u. its not always about cheating or not cheating. i think the most important thing here is the respect factor. right respect. obviously the person u have this "relationship" with is taking a strong defensive and ofensive stance. it doesnt matter if i think its cheating or if the person next to me thinks its cheating. if value this relationship with this person i think u should take thier feelings into consideration. if u want it 2 work out then there should be an understaniding of ground rules and limits to ones crazy actions. after all thats what being in a relationship is all about. if u cant do that then maybe ur just looking 4 2 different things. trust me bro been there done that!Comment
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Dude I think you answered your own question. If it would bother you if the scenerio switched that's. Like Boar said no it is not technically cheating (but is cheatling more than physical) as men to think of our women cheating would drive us crazy, but deep down we also know that with women it is generally driven by emotion not just lust like with us and that is the problemComment
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