Fridays on Defend

[DickHardman]

Its a double-edged sword, bro.

You can get with a bang buddy, get your rocks off and what not but eventually something goes wrong and feelings get hurt; it could come back to haunt you; it probably won't.

or

You could suck-up the rejection and manage your frustration that comes along with being a gentleman in a shallow and often pretentious dating world. Keep putting one foot in front of the other, be patient, persistent and wait for the right person to come along.

you can keep pretending that you dont have feelings, but the fact is we all do garland. ive bottled my feelings up. tried to repress them desperately by working out till im about to throw up, and smoking weed all day long for years, hoping that with every hit i took all my feelings would go away and that i would feel nothing instead, but they dont. may as well accept that you are human and that you have feelings. if you dont ever let your guard down, you are only going to deny yourself many opportunities and just feel worse.


as tom said, just be patient.

[Tom Yum]

You might consider working on yourself as a person when your single. That's the best time to do it.

[Garland]

What he means is: stop being what you are needing!

oh...I'm getting laid...I'm just not in a relationship. Relationships are for suckers. I wrap my shit, so I know I'm gonna be A-ok!

[DickHardman]

Relationships are for suckers.

yeah, its people who say that who feel the emptiest.

unfortunately, i dont really have any words of encouragement for you, the fact is that you are going to most likely keep feeling that way forever. but its ok cause we all die eventually, so none of this really even matters.

[Hardball]

you just need to learn how to dance better.....then you will get mad play .


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ncw70Hw1ffs

I gotta give it to you Bro, you find some interesting vids. LOL

[Blue Wave Gym]

LOL Brewer was right some of you guys need gf's asap, really I'm getting worried. Garland is right in some respects some guys can just be friends with benifits with a chick and some play the field untill their late fourties with no lonliness it just depends on the guy but at some point a guy may want to settle down with one women to rasie a family hence the number of older dads these days. In any evednt lighten up people I'm getting depressed just reading some of the posts

[Hardball]

If you are playing the fields then your babes are playing the fields also. Unless you don't care about children, I'd say start looking for that woman who is going to produce the genectically healthy kids that you want. Other than that, as long as you get some pu$$y on Friday night's who cares. Friday was always my holiday when I was single. I had the same attitude as Garland when I was in my twenties; then all of a sudden I got tired of that lifestyle and started looking for a wife. I was ready to settle down but the women I were dating werent ready yet. LOL. They all turned down my marrige proposals or either I turned down theres. I ended up getting married at 39 and missing out on the joyhood of being a dad. It's one of my biggest regrets in life; not having a birth son. I've adopted but it's not quite the same. So the moral of the story is; watch what you ask for cause you just might get it.

My theme song was from the 70's band Grand Funk Railroad. "I must have been through a million girls"

[Blue Wave Gym]

Now...........

I am depressed.

[Hardball]

Don't be depressed I was born in 57". You got plenty of time to rethink your philosophy on getting laid. LOL

[Garland]

I have a solution. I'll just cheat on my next girlfriend alot with many different girls. That way when she comes out and tells me that she fucked around, I can slam the fact I nailed her bestfriends, her mom, her aunts, her cousins, and her sister...and maybe her grandmother...right in her fucking face. How's that for a contingency plan.

[jubaji]

Get yourself to a shrink, pronto.

[Garland]

Get yourself to a shrink, pronto.

I'm a psych major...
talking to myself is cheaper.


wait...that didn't sound right...

[jubaji]

no offense, but...

I'm a psych major...

That figures. Haven't met one yet who wasn't a nut case.

[Garland]

That figures. Haven't met one yet who wasn't a nut case.

how right you are at that.

[jubaji]

But tell me, how do you...feel...about that?