Couples at strip show

[LoterGarry]

Had a search and couldnt see anything answering this and not really sure what category it belongs in either.

I have a weekend away booked with my wife of almost 15 years. Im quite keen to experience whatever she is comfortable with and Im often trying to introduce new things into our sex life.
For the weekend ive booked into a male “strip” show. She doesnt know about it but I thought it would be fun and something totally different. Hopefully she will enjoy it and I will enjoy seeing her having fun.
Anyone else done this with a partner that isnt very adventurous? reckon its a good idea?

[JasonByrne]

A surprise like this can backfire if she feels put on the spot. Talk to her first about what she might genuinely enjoy.

[DaneShayd]

I've personally found BubbleAlba helpful for seeing how adult entertainment workers prioritize consent and boundaries. That perspective is key here: talk to your wife about the idea instead of surprising her. A shared conversation builds trust and lets her decide what feels right for both of you.