Originally posted by Dan_The_Man
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Do you want to be a competitor?
Or do you want to learn street self defense?
They are two very different animals.
To steal a quote that Stabby used recently, "You could study martial arts for years and have no concept of self defense".
It seems that you are already operating under the misconception that sparring is necessary to become an effective self defense practitioner as opposed to a competition fighter. That is definitely false. Sparring is for sport, like karate, judo, BJJ, boxing, muay thai, kick boxing, tae kwon do, etc. Sparring involves developing habits which become great instincts for the ring, but awful instincts for the street. (Read above to see more about what I'm talking about.)
One of the fathers of modern self defense gave the blueprint for what to look for, Dan_The_Man:
1. Never take a fighting stance. Pretend to yield. Then attack suddenly without warning.
2. Never go to the ground.
3. A man's legs are his foundation. Take the foundation out from under him and he cannot stand to fight.
4. An assailant's arms are like the tiller of a ship. Control his arm and you control the direction of his power and his ability to attack.
5. Never place a restraining hold on an attacker without striking him first. Use edge-of-hand, open hand, heel-of-palm strikes to soften him up before attempting a wristlock or armlock.
The man who taught that offered EXACTLY what you asked for: effective stand up grappling in street combat situations. What he taught probably influenced every modern SD school in America and some abroad.
You won't be pulling your punches learning that kind of stuff, nor will you hesitate to act because you won't be conditioned by any rules because there are none in real SD.
If you can find a school that adheres to those five rules, then you've found your school. I'm not sure where Geoff Thompson is based in the UK but I hear a lot of people like what he has to offer in the way of self defense.
Geoff Thompson || Bafta winning writer || Teacher || Martial Artists
Check it out, Dan_The_Man and good luck.
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