I think this is trying to be too much of a control freak.
I cannot control other people's decisions. To attempt to make people "think like you" seems a bit obsessive to me. I guess it amounts to what purpose one wants to put his teachings.
The Gracies try to teach effective reality fighting for competition and street. They are aggressive by nature, and people who take true fighting styles are aggressive by nature. No wimp is going to take MT, but a naturally agressive individual will.
Most people who creep into a dojo wanting to learn "self defense" are a bit on the wimpy side to begin with. They want to build confidence because they have none. They have no thought of competing, and they are UNaggressive by nature.
People who actually fight do so because they like to fight. These people are your serious students who train so that they can become "better" at doing what they like doing ... which is fighting and winning.
It is a parent's job to teach their kid values; it is a fight instructor's job to teach someone how to fight better.
And what an individual fighter does with his skills is not a reflection on the fighting style, but on his own decisions.
I cannot control other people's decisions. To attempt to make people "think like you" seems a bit obsessive to me. I guess it amounts to what purpose one wants to put his teachings.
The Gracies try to teach effective reality fighting for competition and street. They are aggressive by nature, and people who take true fighting styles are aggressive by nature. No wimp is going to take MT, but a naturally agressive individual will.
Most people who creep into a dojo wanting to learn "self defense" are a bit on the wimpy side to begin with. They want to build confidence because they have none. They have no thought of competing, and they are UNaggressive by nature.
People who actually fight do so because they like to fight. These people are your serious students who train so that they can become "better" at doing what they like doing ... which is fighting and winning.
It is a parent's job to teach their kid values; it is a fight instructor's job to teach someone how to fight better.
And what an individual fighter does with his skills is not a reflection on the fighting style, but on his own decisions.
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