Many many moons ago, I had a conversation with a much older adult about music. It went something like this:
Q: What kind of music do you like?
Me: Oh man, I like alot of different kinds of music. Classical, jazz, funk, some old school rap, alternative...
Q: Oh, but you don't really like classical. You probably don't understand it...
Me: I think I do...
Q: You're not high status. Your parents aren't high society, so how could you like classical music...
Me: ...well, I played trumpet for about 10 years. My favorite classical pieces came from German and Russian composers of the 19th and 20th century. The marching band I was in placed in top five state wide positions all four years I was there. Our orchestra got selected to play in a national concert up in one of the nations best music schools and invited us to travel up north to perform.
Q: Yeah, but its all mechanical to you. You don't really feel the music when you listen to it, you just go through the motions like a mindless (asian) robot...
Me:...well I did play in a small jazz ensemble for a year at the University level, did it in highschool also, got a chance to do solo improv a few times....there were sooo many awesome musicians I looked up to...
Q: You still don't really know music Tom! And on top of it, if you were so good, you would be doing it now professionally!!!
Me: Do you mean I don't understand music composition or theory? Man, I had a really good time doing it and I'm glad I did...
Q: Who do YOU think YOU are?!?! Just because you played an instrument at some school and a so-so university doesn't mean you understand music at all...
Me: Okay, okay, okay...wow, I didn't realize I offended you......bye.
(Tom goes walking on egg shells and keeps mouth shut not to offend)
Q: What kind of music do you like?
Me: Oh man, I like alot of different kinds of music. Classical, jazz, funk, some old school rap, alternative...
Q: Oh, but you don't really like classical. You probably don't understand it...
Me: I think I do...
Q: You're not high status. Your parents aren't high society, so how could you like classical music...
Me: ...well, I played trumpet for about 10 years. My favorite classical pieces came from German and Russian composers of the 19th and 20th century. The marching band I was in placed in top five state wide positions all four years I was there. Our orchestra got selected to play in a national concert up in one of the nations best music schools and invited us to travel up north to perform.
Q: Yeah, but its all mechanical to you. You don't really feel the music when you listen to it, you just go through the motions like a mindless (asian) robot...
Me:...well I did play in a small jazz ensemble for a year at the University level, did it in highschool also, got a chance to do solo improv a few times....there were sooo many awesome musicians I looked up to...
Q: You still don't really know music Tom! And on top of it, if you were so good, you would be doing it now professionally!!!
Me: Do you mean I don't understand music composition or theory? Man, I had a really good time doing it and I'm glad I did...
Q: Who do YOU think YOU are?!?! Just because you played an instrument at some school and a so-so university doesn't mean you understand music at all...
Me: Okay, okay, okay...wow, I didn't realize I offended you......bye.
(Tom goes walking on egg shells and keeps mouth shut not to offend)

I'm not saying you should have punched him, but you should put people like that in their place.



Whatever his redeeming qualities may be that guy souds like a jack ass.

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